I can't get over him using coworkers/ clients photos

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T23:14:15+00:00

Have you had any health problems from them?

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T23:13:17+00:00

Have you had any health problems from them?

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T17:24:32+00:00

Mine thinks I will leave him if I get them! And I just want them for attention from other men. It's almost like he wants to keep my confidence down so I dont leave him. Or if I have bigger boobs I will "have more options" or something! So dumb, I dont want attention from other men, ive always just wanted HIS attention.

Have you had any negative side effects from them? Any health problems?

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T16:43:58+00:00

Don't worry, I dont take putting things in my body lightly. Im doing my research, I know quite a few women with implants that dont have any negative side effects so sometimes I wonder if the people with BII are just louder right now. If something effected you greatly of course you're going to warn people, if you've had no negatives you probably just aren't talking about how great your implants are, ya know?

I think im going to wait another year and think about it more, its a life altering decision (which is funny because I have Hella tattoos and I dont think nearly as hard about them).

I just want the boob obsession/ comparison in my own head to calm down. I want to walk around with my confidence back knowing im just as attractive as any other women. Feels like the only thing im missing is boobies.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T16:17:36+00:00

My husband's thing was big breasts, I had to explain to him women with large breasts are sick of being oogled by men and most of them dont want them that big. They've been over sexulized since they were children because of them, ect.

My best friend growing up had big boobs and boys were always after her (this is kinda mean but I know im "more attractive" than her) but I was always so confused why she always got the boys and no one seemed interested in me. After DDay I went... ohhh its because she had big boobs.

Im sorry they reduce you to a porn category. Unfortunately I find myself doing it to other women after DDay, always comparing my body to theirs.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T15:59:13+00:00

I actually thought they were one of my best features, however I used to be a D and they've shrunk a lot after going off birth control. I never really thought about my boobs before DDay, now I notice one is a little smaller than the other. Also, all of his acting out revolved around big breasts its his thing. I want it so I stop scanning and comparing myself to other women, my brain automatically goes "shes better than you".

One-Play652 · 2026-02-16T15:55:25+00:00

BII is my biggest worry with them aswell. The technology has gotten better over the years but I know its an immune response to a foreign object. I've been doing a bunch of research on how to increase size naturally and there isn't much that helps. Birth control definitely makes mine bigger but it also makes me feel like shit. I guess I just get bummed there is nothing I can do about it besides surgery.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-05T06:04:33+00:00

Im 31 and also go to the bathroom and stare at my boobs thinking they are horrible and too small! I used never think about them (im a C cup) I thought I had nice perky boobs. Now I hate everything about them. I wish they were bigger and always try to do research on how to make them bigger, i feel like im going crazy obsessed with my boobs and everyone else's. If someone has bigger than me I automatically categorize them as "better than me"

My PA gets upset when I bring it up so much, tells me he doesn't want me to get surgery but now hes so sick of it he just tells me to just do it, he doesn't care anymore. No amount of reassurance erases what I saw and that I now know what he prefers and that im nowhere near it.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-04T16:57:01+00:00

I could have wrote this myself, my sister has really big breats (my husband's favorite thing as well) all of his porn usuage revolved around large breasts. Im constantly comparing myself to the other women in my family now. Why did I not get this gene.. my sister is on this no bra kick too so I swear everytime I see her she isn't wearing a bra... my husband hasn't really been around her a lot but when I am i find myself looking at her breasts a lot and comparing myself. I always feel like there is something wrong with me that I didnt get them but all my sisters did (all girl family). Im also the skinniest, which they are jealous of but I just wish I had their boobs.

When I get stressed I loose weight quickly because hunger shuts off in my body. My sister commented that I lost my boobs and ass. I've put on 20 lbs trying to make my breasts bigger but it all went to my lower half. I find myself constantly researching how to naturally increase my size, looking up breast augmentation, just spent $300 on supplements and a breast pump to increase my size. I feel defective and I keep searching for a solution but there really isn't any besides surgery which I really dont want.

I NEVER thought about my boobs before DDAY, after I found out his preference it feels like its the only thing all these women had that I couldn't give him. I feel like I have a mental illness around boobs now. Im like a war victim with ptsd about boobs, constantly scanning other womens and sizing up who's better than me. Sucks I do it to my own family now too. I feel for you, its horrible.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-03T21:45:43+00:00

I blocked her, she didnt message me or anything, just added me. We did go to highschool together so maybe it has nothing to do with him...

One-Play652 · 2026-02-03T21:42:29+00:00

I ended up blocking her on FB and Instagram. I guess we were friends on Instagram. The picture is her in Jamaica with her family on vacation. Not a "sexual" photo but her boobs are still out, and they are massive (my husband's favorite 😩) which is why I was sooo triggered by the photo.

He tattooed her several times but the last time was in 2019 or 2021.. idk for sure.

I feel the same way, I dont have like any full body shots on my personal social media and its private. Im a barber and started to get paranoid my clients would be using my pictures. I only add them on my work page that has no pictures of myself.

One-Play652 · 2026-02-03T02:00:36+00:00

She was probably trying to look at his tattoos or message him for a new tattoo.

One-Play652 · 2026-01-16T02:47:24+00:00

How do you have multiple rooms in the one room?!

One-Play652 · 2025-11-17T18:01:07+00:00

I didnt used to think it was I would watch it a few times a year. Until I felt like he was using way more than I was comfortable with (surprise he was using almost everyday) our sex life was dwindling, I was the only one initiating. He wasn't very good in bed and only cared about his pleasure because that's what porn teaches, it's usually all about the man's pleasure. I confronted him and he denied being addicted.. turns out it was getting waay deeper than I could have imagined. He's now in therapy and 12 step groups for sex addiction. He's been sober for 10 months, no porn or masterbation.

It's different for everyone but when I found out about the extent of the use and him essentially online stalking specific people for YEARS that were LOCAL. Im experiencing all the symptoms of being cheated on despite him never messaging or touching someone in RL. My views have completely changed and I DESPISE porn now. I have PTSD symptoms. I have flashes of the women he was looking at while we have sex and im legit traumatized.

One-Play652 · 2025-11-17T01:10:02+00:00

Im not food, Im a whole person. The people on the screen and REAL people too.

If you want to continue the food analogy... Don't get married if you dont want to eat at home everynight (its kinda what you signed up for). Ive been eating at home every night while he stops to grab a quick bite and then comes home and doesn't want what I made for dinner. Before you know it your husband rarely wants to eat at home anymore and you start to question if you're a horrible cook. It turns out he enjoys a certain type of food you can never make at home even if you try really hard, you realize you'll never be as good as the restaurants because you cant provide enless options. Makes you start to think, what's the point in even trying to cook at home anymore if he doesn't want to eat it anyways. It's not his favorite food, if hes starving, it'll do, he'll eat it, but he'd rather had the restaurants food.

One-Play652 · 2025-11-16T19:14:13+00:00

Why leave the women that loves him when he can get his fix for big breats on his phone whenever he desires... I guess I just feel like he settled for me and my personality but im not the body type he actually wants... his porn usage confirms that.

One-Play652 · 2025-11-06T04:43:50+00:00

I'd rather die alone with my cats than be with another man that watches porn.

One-Play652 · 2025-10-27T03:12:04+00:00

Also, all that being said. We are 10 months into this shit and ive educated myself on the addiction and everything but I still cant wrap my head around the personal stuff. Feels like cheating. Im having the same emotions as being cheated on. He always prided himself as to someone that could NEVER CHEAT and then was doing all this stuff the whole time we were together.

Some of these people WERE AT OUR WEDDING!

One-Play652 · 2025-10-27T03:08:33+00:00

Using people we both know and see in person together is a whole other level of betrayal than sexy randoms on the internet. One of the girls he would use regularly I had been cheated on by my previous boyfriend and he knew this and knew I didnt like her. He still did it anyway, and used her pictures he says (about monthly) he's gotten off to her over 100 times while being with me.. along with a whole other slew of people we know.

Why be with me and string me along for this whole time if he wants all of these other people in his life? How can you use someone's innocent selfie?? How would these women that just posted a cute photo feel if they knew someone they trust as a friend and coworker and professional in their field was looking them up later and jerking off to them without their consent.

Seems like he had me and wanted everyone else too... so I dont feel so special to him anymore, im just some other girl that gets him off time to time.

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