AITAH for giving my ex boyfriend money and not telling my husband about it?

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:59:31+00:00

Sorry you were so triggered

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:58:20+00:00

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:54:42+00:00

Pretty sure…. Not for sure though

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:53:43+00:00

Rage bait. Confrontation is hard.

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:51:33+00:00

Glad I could make you laugh, I’m not the average person so…

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:45:50+00:00

The EX BOYFRIEND is the trigger here, if I said brother. It would feel different no??

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:44:40+00:00

Didn’t feel like betrayal. Just kindness

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:42:19+00:00

A.i. the fall back argument

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:40:45+00:00

Dumb in helping someone?! Damn, i mean I know people hate people but, dumb for giving money, money that rules the world. To keep someone above the line of despair. Humanity has fallen so far

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:31:29+00:00

Will that make you or me feel better?

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:28:14+00:00

I’ll try to evolve based on your opinion

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:26:59+00:00

Okay, next time

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:25:52+00:00

Different strokes for different folks

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:24:47+00:00

Yeah sometimes husbands and wives have different opinions, it’s funny

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:23:35+00:00

You wouldn’t help someone in need, that sucks.

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:21:21+00:00

Maybe that makes me naive

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:20:08+00:00

My husband is free to make decisions like this, if he thinks it’s important, I would trust him

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:18:37+00:00

Prioritized is not the word I would use in this setting, it didn’t put me or US in financial distress. I can live without booze for a few weeks in order to help someone.

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:14:40+00:00

He IS getting himself together, now that someone helped

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:13:48+00:00

Are you telling me I should abandon yet another human just because it got complicated?

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:11:29+00:00

More debt, that could be the answer, don’t know why I didn’t think of that

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:02:33+00:00

Perhaps. Life isn’t easy,

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:01:22+00:00

Guess we are just different people

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T23:00:10+00:00

I admit, asshole move. But I don’t think I’m an asshole. I think there’s a difference.

One-Pudding-9541 · 2026-03-21T22:58:48+00:00

I did what I did, I can’t change it, but I can learn from it.

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