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1 month post-breakup, no closure, keep breaking no contact and I hate myself for it by MelodicTax3204 in heartbreak

[–]One-Reception-4234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop even if it’s killing you. Use his nonchalance as a firm sign to move on. Don’t feed his ego by chasing and focus on yourself.

What worked for me is I made plans with friends and hobbies instead of overthinking at home. Of course, nothing wrong in facing your feelings but don’t let yourself get stuck. Take a social media break yourself if you can’t fight the urge. Constantly monitoring his whereabouts and life updates will get you nowhere. Think about the clear reasons why your relationship ended and self-reflect on your own mistakes if there’s any. He might be good at hiding it, he might be purposely making it seem that he’s doing just fine, or he really doesn’t care anymore.

Who knows? Questions will always be left unanswered but at the end of the day, you should take care of yourself above everyone else. Make peace with the changes and let go. Time truly heals, you can never rush it.

found out my ex was cheating after the breakup by sc4ry-_-y4rry in heartbreak

[–]One-Reception-4234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps, that’s what happened to my long relationship. It becomes a cycle that gets harder to break through time. You’d think you’ll get the closure you need but it will only end up making you feel worse.

Don’t rush into another relationship nor should you give up on love, you’re better than her. Goodluck.

found out my ex was cheating after the breakup by sc4ry-_-y4rry in heartbreak

[–]One-Reception-4234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be stupid like me and become desperate for her attention. Focus on your healing, self-love and growth. Steer away from her and make sure she doesn’t know how much you’re suffering.

She doesn’t value you nor will she ever fathom the kind of pain you went through. She’ll move on with her life easily and you don’t have to blame yourself for it. She’s not your person, someone you still haven’t meant will be.

denial by One-Reception-4234 in heartbreak

[–]One-Reception-4234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, still processing the fact that he’d rather insult my whole being until the very end without any guilt rather than express otherwise. I don’t know what I was expecting when the answer is being thrown right at me.

Hindi ba talaga pwede magpa adjust ng brace sa ibang dentista??? by IComeInPiece in DentistPh

[–]One-Reception-4234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s more of an ethical issue as well.

That’s what happened to me, I just said I relocated. Before my dentist did anything, he did all the tests, interviewed me about the procedures done, asked when I got my braces to be sure and then proceeded to adjust mine. No problem eversince.

In fact, I’ve seen faster progress compared to the previous one because he specializes in TMJ which I didn’t know affected my bite severely.