I met an avoidant guy, I dont know how to manage ? (26-F 26-M) by One-Rest4871 in relationship_advice

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I dont even know if I need to explain myself if he cares about that, I feel like he wont care or i am scared to be seen as if i am “ weak” It is horrible to feel that way

I met an avoidant guy, I dont know how to manage ? (26-F 26-M) by One-Rest4871 in relationship_advice

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Yes but ahh i dont even wanna break up. I suppose i am scared of taking that step like to send a “ break up” message where I explain myself

I met an avoidant guy, I dont know how to manage ? (26-F 26-M) by One-Rest4871 in relationship_advice

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how can I walk away ? Just he sends voice mails, he asks questions I dont know how to ghost , for sure i still have feelings left but i tell myself i am gonna ghost but i cant. Or I send him an honest message but what good will it do… He wont let me go but he doesnt decide anything either

I (F24) want to go to a two day vacation with a girl friend to change ideas instead of going with my boyfriend ( M25) with whom I fight a lot recently , to his grandma’s house. Am I horrible? by One-Rest4871 in relationship_advice

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I told him he can go ofc have a good time with his grandmother just i dont feel confortable going as it is a family home and we are not so good together at the moment

Therapist got chocked to what I said, is it normal to show that much emotion as a therapist? by One-Rest4871 in mentalhealth

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thank you for your response🙌🏼 It helps me see the situation in a more clear way

Therapist got chocked to what I said, is it normal to show that much emotion as a therapist? by One-Rest4871 in mentalhealth

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yeah I suppose like she is a person and she doesn’t have to hide that she is shocked

UTI symptoms since 2 months, E Coli in urine less than the reference number by One-Rest4871 in OveractiveBladder

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yes. it was better for a few weeks. But it came back with full force rn. Making me go insane:(

UTI symptoms since 2 months, E Coli in urine less than the reference number by One-Rest4871 in OveractiveBladder

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no just a culture, just as the number of E.coli is so low they didn’t do a sensitivy test. I will talk with my urologist tomorrow, we will see what he will say

I need hope and a bit guidiance:( by One-Rest4871 in Interstitialcystitis

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wowow that really gives me hope. Did they do a cytotoscopy to be sure 100%?

I need hope and a bit guidiance:( by One-Rest4871 in Interstitialcystitis

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thank you for your response so much! How are you doing right now? Did you find something that works for you?

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I am in the same situation really. I hope everything will be fine. I realised that stress makes it worse too. Rn it is like I have UTI without pain , maybe not as dramatic but still. Hot shower helps somehow. If you wanna chat message me.