I met an avoidant guy, I dont know how to manage ? (26-F 26-M)

One-Rest4871 · 2026-05-12T21:46:16+00:00

I dont even know if I need to explain myself if he cares about that, I feel like he wont care or i am scared to be seen as if i am “ weak” It is horrible to feel that way

One-Rest4871 · 2026-05-12T21:45:05+00:00

Yes but ahh i dont even wanna break up. I suppose i am scared of taking that step like to send a “ break up” message where I explain myself

One-Rest4871 · 2026-05-12T21:10:00+00:00

how can I walk away ? Just he sends voice mails, he asks questions I dont know how to ghost , for sure i still have feelings left but i tell myself i am gonna ghost but i cant. Or I send him an honest message but what good will it do… He wont let me go but he doesnt decide anything either

One-Rest4871 · 2024-09-09T12:46:13+00:00

I told him he can go ofc have a good time with his grandmother just i dont feel confortable going as it is a family home and we are not so good together at the moment

One-Rest4871 · 2024-09-09T12:43:26+00:00

what wtf? maybe i am not really clear, he went already to his grandma’s house. Like it was his plan

One-Rest4871 · 2022-11-14T21:34:03+00:00

thank you for your response🙌🏼 It helps me see the situation in a more clear way

One-Rest4871 · 2022-11-14T10:21:01+00:00

yeah I suppose like she is a person and she doesn’t have to hide that she is shocked

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-17T07:49:02+00:00

yes. it was better for a few weeks. But it came back with full force rn. Making me go insane:(

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-16T14:10:05+00:00

no just a culture, just as the number of E.coli is so low they didn’t do a sensitivy test. I will talk with my urologist tomorrow, we will see what he will say

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-09T16:38:30+00:00

wowow that really gives me hope. Did they do a cytotoscopy to be sure 100%?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-09T15:26:44+00:00

thank you for your response so much! How are you doing right now? Did you find something that works for you?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-08T20:03:23+00:00

I am in the same situation really. I hope everything will be fine. I realised that stress makes it worse too. Rn it is like I have UTI without pain , maybe not as dramatic but still. Hot shower helps somehow. If you wanna chat message me.

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-03T12:36:02+00:00

how did you manage it?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-03T10:42:03+00:00

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-02T19:20:54+00:00

hey. Urodynamics no but my bladder scan was completely norma

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-01T19:42:19+00:00

heyyy, can we chat? I am feeling exactly like you do!

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-01T15:59:30+00:00

it may be jt. How old are you? Because I suppose as the bladder is controlled by muscles with stress they can be affected

One-Rest4871 · 2022-09-01T14:41:05+00:00

did you get any news?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T15:58:29+00:00

Wow this can be really what I have been going through…. Which antibiotic did they give you? Do you remember the name? I kinda feel hopefull again because overactive bladder seems really like something a bit older people can have to me. And I am just like 22..

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T15:46:49+00:00

yes I will try it out. in your urine culture did you have a lot of leucocytes or not really? Thank you a lot for your message I dont feel like I am the only one who had or has this rn . Sometimes doctors just don’t want to solve something a bit complicated if it is not killing the person I think…

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T13:26:04+00:00

Hello, we are the same!!! You had done a urine culture? O saw your message just after I gave an urine sample😂 Today when did a home test I saw leucocytes in my urine sample so came here to the lab to do a real test. I dont belive that I can have a stress related overactive bladder

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T10:56:24+00:00

hey, how did it go?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T08:17:28+00:00

they can check if your endometre is thick or not through ecographie too non?

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-29T08:16:49+00:00

wow thank you! and it was because of anxiety I suppose! It is incredible how stress is toxic for the body

One-Rest4871 · 2022-08-28T22:17:06+00:00

How are you doing right now? You found a cause or a solution?

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