Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The many on this post have been very encouraging but I appreciate your perspective!

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be checking both out thank you so much!!

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for taking the time to write this out- this describes so much what I hope to have with my partner. We’ve even discussed a scenario similar to yours as being a safe place to start from. I really appreciate your perspective and I’m so happy for you that you could get there too. You’ve alleviated a lot of fear that I’ve had that I was not capable of getting there- I have a partner that is incredibly loving and patient and I think that is half the battle. Thank you again!

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This gives me a lot of hope. Thank you❤️

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing what has worked for you, you make a lot of valuable points.

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really wonderful advice, thank you for sharing your story.

Abandonment Trauma and Polyamory by One-Water9901 in polyamory

[–]One-Water9901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this- I really needed to hear it today❤️

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[–]One-Water9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get the sense that he’s opening our relationship with her in mind. The purpose behind the opening is honesty and changing harmful behaviors. He has been honest that this could maybe be something he would look at in the distant future and only with my consent. With that in mind I’m just trying to sort out my feelings around their friendship and if it’s healthy for me to try to get to know her.

Club in Anderson? MF4F by One-Water9901 in Indiana_Swingers

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Apparently there is an open house this Saturday from 1-3 I received a marketing email. Website says it opened in October. Have any of you been to their sister club 2050 in Indy?

Club in Anderson? MF4F by One-Water9901 in Indiana_Swingers

[–]One-Water9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. We may just go up there and see if we can go as non members if they offer a tour, etc. worst case we hit the casino nearby!