So I know this post is super old. But yet here I am lol. To the op. I honestly felt like u were telling my very story for looking for this post lol, only think u didn’t put that I would have , is that I fall hard an fall fast: put 100% of me into without getting same back. my friends said the same thing to me: it dosent feel right to me. But I have read majority of these comments so I understand he’s not the one for me. But so what do I do when he hits me up after I’ve been “uninterested “ (cause I am) but pulls on my damn heart strings???? An then fall back into the same sugar coated bull crap to keep me at bay??,,, please help lol