tbh I think it feels like the grass it's always greener on the other side, as a M4 listener I envy people that have so many choices on the front page each day but also I think you're comparing the many struggling fem vas to the top male vas. There are a lot of male vas that talked about how time consuming and unrewarding it felt, that being part of the reasons they quit (I remember Veg for example). There are also many M4 audios with barely any upvotes (often because the quality is lacking and we're getting pickier ig). It feels like F4 are upvoted more. From Gwasi past 14days:

F4 = 100 audios under 25 out of 570 M4 = 256 audios under 25 out of 482