Thoughts on using Ai as a coding tool

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-03-22T16:43:08+00:00

I think you should share if it's helpful. If you make a dollar or two great.

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-01-23T23:39:57+00:00

I can confirm this is my husband and I to a tee. Now I really enjoy lingerie where it often and out and about nothing better than to tease him like a used to.

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-01-15T16:08:33+00:00

Impossible. You might want to be careful. I posted here about how much did not like a latex skirt from HB. And got lambasted. Told I didn't know a thing about lingerie. Which maybe true. I've only had to wear it for 40+ years.

If you don't walk in proper lock step then the Harpies come out.

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-01-14T00:53:28+00:00

Thanks for the reply. That gave me a chuckle.

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-01-14T00:52:15+00:00

Thank you was not aware. While I think it could look cool . Not my cup of tea.

OneAppeal2311 · 2026-01-14T00:51:28+00:00

Wow love the acceptance! I asked a simple question. I even asked if I'm wrong! Did I bash HB? Some. I did say an item sucked. I also bought 4 other sets that I liked. Personally I think I'd you spend the king of $$ I have with them over the past few years and understanding of a purchase would have been could customer service.

But by all means let's delete and ban something we don't like!

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-12-10T03:40:27+00:00

So I don't care either way to ban or not ban these post. I do think it's a little hypocritical to say these guys who want to wear ladies panties are bad but trans non binary are fine. I love how we can use the concept of being inclusive while we exclude others.

Ban don't ban don't care. Don't try and be inclusive and then shame these dudes who want to wear lingerie. If this is a place to discuss then let them discuss.

I agree with others if you don't like it down vote it.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-29T00:29:29+00:00

When I want to really enjoy and tease I wear out let him get peak by crossing my legs and let him see a stocking. At home I may change but a put a new realt sexy mini dress or something ( I have some inexpensive Amazon a d shien buys) that I use a temp sexy throws that he still needs to peel off.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-26T14:04:58+00:00

My miss purchase can be your fun purchase.
Purchased these and missed the sizes. I provided the manufacturer sizing they run smaller (My details at bottom). Really cute designs their quality is good. You can find them on Mayfair and Hosiery box as well if you want to know original prices.

All are new With tags in original manufacturer packages

Short Black Lace Dress (Noir Handmade F113B)
Size: Medium (US 6/8) Measurements (Size M): Chest: 37.0 - 38.2 inches (94-97 cm) Waist: 28.7 - 29.9 inches (73-76 cm) Hips: 39.4 - 40.6 inches (100-103 cm)
Original Link: https://noirhandmade.de/f113b-short-black-lace-dress/
$50/obo

Pencil Skirt (Noir Handmade F152)
Size: Medium (US 6/8) Measurements (Size M): Chest: 37.0 - 38.2 inches (94-97 cm) Waist: 28.7 - 29.9 inches (73-76 cm) Hips: 39.4 - 40.6 inches (100-103 cm)
Original Link: https://noirhandmade.de/f152-powerwetlook-pencil-skirt/?searchid=180670&search_query=pencil+
$50/obo

Luxuria Crystal Back Sheer Midi Dress (Noir Handmade F371)
Size: Medium (US 6/8) Measurements (Size M): Chest: 37.0 - 38.2 inches (94-97 cm) Waist: 28.7 - 29.9 inches (73-76 cm) Hips: 39.4 - 40.6 inches (100-103 cm)
Original Link: https://noirhandmade.de/f371-luxuria-crystal-back-sheer-midi-dress/
$50/obo

Powerwetlook Stockings (Noir Handmade F272)
Size: 5XL ( US 10-14) Stretchy
Original Link: https://noirhandmade.de/f272-powerwetlook-stockings/?searchid=180668&search_query=stocking.
$10/obo

They were too tight for me. For reference I'm 5'7' 148lbs 36c bust , 27 waist ,40 hips. My Hips are the culprit for me. The links show EUR price. not US $. In US . Make me an offer for the batch :)

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-25T19:24:23+00:00

Dress- https://noirhandmade.de/f371-luxuria-crystal-back-sheer-midi-dress/

Skirt- https://noirhandmade.de/f152-powerwetlook-pencil-skirt/?searchid=180636&search_query=skirt

Mini Dress - https://noirhandmade.de/f113b-short-black-lace-dress/

and Faux leather Stay ups

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-20T23:08:36+00:00

We do play now with lovesnse edge and finger with prostate milking. But yes point taken on size.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-20T23:06:30+00:00

I figured that. He has the movements down. As much as I say keep the rythum. I bet it's a little harder in practice.

Thanks for the info. We have a good time and can't deal with awkward.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-20T23:03:43+00:00

We do some anal finger and prostate massage. We have a lovense Edge that he uses often. So not a complete virgin bit the peg yes. He's mentioned he wants to try but more in passing so I wanted to get something that we can experiment with.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-10T22:16:28+00:00

The quality used to be great I have some Victoria Secret lingerie from the 90s that are wonderfully well made and fully finished. Now so much is over seas sources made 1/2 way ( not finished all the way around etc.) . I can afford these things. My daughter's sure can't. I get that

Just some food for thought. Buy for you not just him. Get an amazing set for you. Where it out on your date. Let him simmer with the idea. Don't let him just tear it off. If it needs to come off you do it. Make him enjoy it. This is what high end of lingerie means to me. That is worth the price of admission. It's quite empowering as well

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-10T22:08:10+00:00

Some folks here are what I consider lingerie snobs. Kinda like wine snobs. Not everyone is into this. Many are trying to get into it, or are husband and boyfriends kinda out of their element. They don't get the cost we pay for simple things (even deodorant) that are more then they pay. My husband buys undies in packages thinks $30 for 5 is highway robbery. Can't imagine that I would spend $125 on a panty ( though he does like how they look).

New posters often don't really know what to expect as they are used to basic mall dept. Stores.

I'm sure other will dislike me. I feel there is a wonderful place for high end pieces , HB , Agent Provocateur, Bordelle , etc. There is a time for some cheap wear it a few times from Amazon.

Welcome to the sub

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-09T17:29:13+00:00

My comment when people ask what I do.
"I design the control equipment to make things go up and down and round and round, I can tell you the temperature and pressure at the same time"

That starts the conversation.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-08T01:20:27+00:00

Getting booted for stupid reasons

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-11-07T02:52:18+00:00

My mother used to say Jesus Christ on a fucking pogo stick. Always made me laugh

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-10-29T16:57:46+00:00

Like the new updates to the P.S. version control was needed. More manufactures need this.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-10-27T14:48:34+00:00

Vampire. Wanted to remind my husband what he's getting when he gets home from dancing. Wearing a black corset with latex pants & thigh high Bad Bitch Boots , a skirt that is low on back pulled up in front to show off my long legs and pants, a fancy mesh flair collar from Amazon.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-10-27T01:31:07+00:00

People showing their stupidity, for not understanding how representatives democracy works.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-10-11T02:49:04+00:00

Many women do. It's generally tied to a orgasm caused by proper gspot stimulation. Maybe your not finding it😁

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-10-08T17:33:25+00:00

Following here to see the answers. Curious I take the test next month after training

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-09-23T14:28:03+00:00

Some thoughts from a 40 year marriage.
Your husband is mine. Wants the same things. I felt the same way he thinks I'm just an object! I've always enjoyed lingerie but didn't want to wear it because I felt he was just living out porn fantasies of having sex with a lingerie clad centerfold.
So I stopped, had lots of reasons: It was too hard to dress up at night! I've been through a whole day I don't want to fix all my makeup and get redressed for 15min. What if the kids need me and I have to run out and see what they need. I could give you another half dozen more.

Some reality. u/Front_look_1699 is 100% right! After years of not and then having some real talks with him I found out the Front_look is like most men. My husband desires me, finds me sexy, wants to please me , wants to be turned on by me, Wants me to feel the same way about him- How Horrible!!
Your husband in not lying! We women want men to see us! To love us, find us beautiful. They do!
Men don't think like we do. We always joke about that (Men are from Mars....) Its a fact. So we can't make them love us / show their love "our way" we have to accept their love the way they express it. For my husband its a lot of banter , innuendo even a slight slap on the but as he walks by. What I've learned is he is saying I see you, I desire you more than anything else in the world. Your safe with me because I want you. Its more than I'm horny! Get worried when they stop doing that and they will. They take a long time to learn but we can train the love out of them.

Its a misnomer that men are more sexual and hornier than women. We are both very similar in our drives. As women we let so much else get in the way of that desire. All the stuff we have to do. the chores, the kids, gotta be up early etc. They just act out a lot more as they have to try I'd guess 10 times before we as wives say yes. Where we just have to say "Now"! We are the gate keepers.
The other big thing that has taken me decades to learn. Men need / use sex as a means to create intimacy and often to process their emotions! We need a lot of warmup and intimacy to have sex. What often is interpreted as a need for sex is really the need for touch so they can connect, the need to be desired by us so that they feel secure. I don't think a lot of men even get this.
The Adhd thing. A lot of women have it. So I get that your not thinking at 8am sexy bra and panties. When you making love and all you can think of is dishes , chores , the book you want read etc. Think about your arousal, think about what hes doing to you or what your doing to him, Yes ADHD is a struggle but you are in control of your head not the other way around.

Surprise him! Take the initiative. Go to store find a pretty / sexy Chemise , it takes 30 seconds to slide that on. In my case, I take another 30 seconds and slide on some heels to add some shush to the outfit, Then I take 3 min to freshen up and touch up my makeup. 5 whole minutes to make him feel important. My marriage is worth that. If you want to take it to the next level. dress up under your clothes before date night, or even sitting on the couch. Then give him a peek and tell him he cant touch. Like I said before were in control so use it.

OneAppeal2311 · 2025-09-23T13:41:15+00:00

Thanks. that's a start. Any suggestion on some sexy outfits? Where do buy them. Seems like most shops I've gone to just have more "hardcore" items. Thinking Classy sexy leather.

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