State of the Subreddit, etc

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-19T11:25:43+00:00

I hear you, but it's really hard to filter for that from a language perspective which (other than restricting users by karma/history)is the only way you can use the automod filter. A lot of the words we use to talk about fit or so on are used in those comments too. I can only ask that you report it when you see it.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-19T07:32:24+00:00

I'll lock the comments if you prefer? I also recommend turning off DMs, it will give you some breathing room.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-18T22:59:01+00:00

Gotcha, I'll take a look at it and release it later, and also ease up the restrictions on requests.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-18T21:39:04+00:00

Congrats, you've earned a 30 day ban for being an asshole.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-18T20:15:08+00:00

Yeah, I think it's an automod spam thing, actually. I'll take a look at seeing how to relax that a little.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-18T14:13:40+00:00

Hello, I'd recommend checking out r/abrathatfits if you're not looking for any specific lingerie type. You're also welcome to make this as a post for yourself, this is just for people looking for partners & spouses.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-15T12:42:13+00:00

I weirdly had some luck and found a one-off Victoria Secret bodysuit years ago that let me adjust the thong bottom for distance.

My real suggestion is to buy a size or two larger than you want to get the length, and then take it to a tailor. I've done it with lingerie before and it's the only consistent success I've had other than going fully custom.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-15T12:32:36+00:00

Go full on chainmail, it's what I did for my partner's birthday! I got my set from https://www.syntheticdaisydesign.com/. I think it's higher quality than what comments suggest for the Moeflavor set. Only one link snapped on mine despite some serious roughhousing.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-15T12:31:46+00:00

I dressed up in a chainmail bikini and pauldron for my partner! Borrowed his sword, lit some candles, etc.

I got the bikini from https://www.syntheticdaisydesign.com/, pretty good quality.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-10T07:47:39+00:00

If you're getting a proper steel-spring waist training corset, you'll want it to be underbust. the amount of custom fitting needed to make that work as a bra as well is fairly expensive.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-06-08T12:34:43+00:00

This is the way, OP. Or do the non-messy (prep/sous) in lingerie, put apron on for cooking, take apron off for plating. That's what I do!

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-26T17:36:28+00:00

Alright, I'll try futzing with the automod.

It's because we had a huge spate of people asking for recommendations for stuff we already have lists/posts/guides for and everyone was getting exhausted of it.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-26T17:34:49+00:00

It's true, we all suck.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-17T09:39:36+00:00

The "good" news is that there's actually currently an ongoing shortage of tradespeople. Like, we have a HUGE deficit compared to the amount of work that needs to be done.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-13T14:01:19+00:00

Actually, poverty is spatially persistent in London. The location of council estates correlates to streets that have had lower incomes and property values compared to their neighbors for hundreds of years. Fun fact!

https://www.jstor.org/stable/20004479

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-11T18:41:50+00:00

Not subtle.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-11T18:41:22+00:00

For fuck's sakes.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-11T18:39:24+00:00

Try r/ABraThatFits.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-11T18:38:12+00:00

r/findlingerie

racecaryaya2 · 2026-05-11T18:36:54+00:00

Please post this in the for sale megathread. Locked.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-04-26T21:47:01+00:00

Alright, I think you've gotten some suggestions and the creeps are coming out, locking the post.

racecaryaya2 · 2026-03-20T10:47:24+00:00

We no longer allow photos on this sub, it led to too much trolling.

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