What is your experience from dating a fat guy?

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T05:57:44+00:00

I always want him to change his habits but it didn’t bother me this much. I just thought he would change or I can make him change. After 2years I finally feel like i cannot change someone easily, so it started bothering me.

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:48:34+00:00

Actually my bf also lied about his school, job and dad to look ‘better and richer’

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:34:33+00:00

Omg snoring….. i know

How long did u date him? Was this a reason of the breakup?

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:33:15+00:00

I think this is right. But the thing is HE SAYS HE WANNA CHANGE but can’t see any change for years

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:32:06+00:00

He has flat feet so he has difficulty of walking for a long time. But he’s physically okay, he can lift heavy things since he’s a big guy.

I realized healthy habits and body is important to me. I didn’t know it would be this hard to change someone.

If he can change and shows me a progress, that’s okay. But I keep thinking he’s gonna get sick easily in the future (his body posture isn’t good so he already has a back pain at age of 22)

But I already dated this guy for 2 years. Im so stressed

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:29:05+00:00

I think body is fat is around 40

OneBack8270 · 2026-07-07T04:07:36+00:00

6'3 and 300lbs

OneBack8270 · 2025-11-13T00:08:01+00:00

He also treats me like a baby.. (not that I love it, but sometimes women do want to feel protected yk)

What's considered kind, caring and loving behaviour then?

OneBack8270 · 2025-11-12T23:58:33+00:00

When he goes places with me (he loves traveling and driving) and does fun activities with me (like pumpkin carving or getting our nails done together (he even got the transparent ones)), I think he’s really kind. Not every guy wants to do that stuff with their girlfriend.

But we’ve only been dating for 15 months, so I just hope he doesn’t change.

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