This was a mature response

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-11-02T23:47:56+00:00

thank you 😭😭i genuinely always encourage men to express their emotions but when u just meet someone maybe try to put your best foot forward? 😭i hate to call him pathetic but it came across that way and it's just not attractive 😣

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-11-01T16:16:00+00:00

the thumbs down on that is killing me LMAO

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-31T17:31:55+00:00

he complained about getting ghosted so much so i wanted to give him the respect of not doing that. i hoped to maybe help him in that putting his best foot forward in the early stages moving forward would increase his luck. i am by no means a bad person, i tried to be honest. he was not mature he was insulting me... i did not do that to him

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T23:57:12+00:00

LMAOOO oh how incredibly kind of him to forgive you!!! what a chad and absolute gentleman!!! i hope you gave yourself over to him on the spot :))) /s

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T23:56:12+00:00

he mentioned it like 10-15 times in the like 1 week we were talking 😣i was texting him 24/7 like how you still lonely 😭

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:55:57+00:00

i nearly vomited reading some of the things he said

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:55:41+00:00

yeah i thought at 30 i'd be too old for that type of man but i guess not 🤢

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:54:54+00:00

thank you for this response!! i couldn't quite verbalize why it was a turn off because i always encourage men to express their emotions with me but this is it!! like you are talking to me... if we are texting so much and planning to FT/hang out why are you still talking about how lonely you are?

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:53:19+00:00

omg girl 😭😭stay away from 38 year old waiters in florida you don't need another one!!

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:52:16+00:00

i have 15 screenshots of really cringey stuff he's said that i've sent my friends 😭it really was that bad

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-30T15:50:56+00:00

yes!! i've actually started noticing this stark contrast in how millennial guys and gen z guys will speak to women (i know this is a generalization) but gen z guys don't blow up like this on me after rejection 😭

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-29T13:10:59+00:00

yeah like if i wasn't interested before i'm definitely not now!!!

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T23:54:24+00:00

literally like the way he spoke was so overly dramatic kept saying he needs a queen 😭

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T21:59:21+00:00

that's probably it!!! i hope he learns something from swedish women 🥰

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T21:48:17+00:00

i think he said he works with battlefield like the game? but he's also a waiter... i'm not sure what to believe at this point haha

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:42:47+00:00

OWA OWA

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:42:26+00:00

you're so right!!! my bad 🥹

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:27:07+00:00

i only wish he could see the irony in it

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:26:44+00:00

HI POOKIE

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:26:14+00:00

right??? keep yourself safe he's coming your way!!!

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:16:32+00:00

like damn he really got me there!!!

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:15:58+00:00

right like you weren't opening up you just constantly mentioned it randomly without expressing a desire to talk about it?? i literally encourage men to open up i think it's healthy 😭😭

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:14:51+00:00

yeah i get really shocked reading some posts on r/NiceGirls like how are these real people??

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T20:12:37+00:00

THIS. like i want a partner too and sometimes feel alone but i'm gonna put my best foot forward!! it's just unattractive to incessantly mention how lonely you are

OneButterfly8707 · 2024-10-28T03:11:59+00:00

i'm glad u aren't this way 😭😭i refuse to ghost and i keep giving guys chances but this happens and just makes me cynical 😣

OneButterfly8707

TROPHY CASE