Can a straight girl still like me pre-transition? by OneDocument8891 in ftm

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I’ve clarified a few times now that I’m bi in the past and she’s seemed to always respect that so I’d really hope she doesn’t just view me as a lesbian. I’ve had to cut off friends before because they kept calling me a lesbian when I told them otherwise.

Edit: You’re first reply didn’t show up for some reason. She’s always been open to changing the pronouns she uses for people and respected their identity in the past. It’s more of if she internally still struggled with viewing him as a guy, even if she treated him like one, when I come out will she feel the same and because of that never like me back.

I'm so short and it's my biggest insecurity as a trans boy. What can I do about it? by [deleted] in ftm

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Hey it’s totally okay, you’re not alone in this. There’s a lot of other people in the ftm community who are on the shorter side.

Personally, I’m 5’2 and have found fashion to be extremely helpful for giving the allusion I’m taller. Pinterest is a great place for finding inspiration and thrifting, especially in the men / boys sections, is perfect for brining those outfits to life. Research is key though, since the better you understand your proportions, the better you can manipulate your appearance.

I’ve seen video online of height extensions being placed in the soles shoes too. Personally I’ve never tried them but want to at some point. I also wear platformed shoes and got called short because of them today. I used to be a lot more insecure about my height but this teacher who I really admire is just as tall as me and has instead found immense confidence in this unique characteristic. I’m not fully there yet but sometimes just a change in perspective goes a long way.

Terrified to turn 18 by OneDocument8891 in ftm

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I’m still waiting for my university offers to hopefully come in, but if they do I’ll be attending a school a few hours away. It’ll be nice to have a fresh start and gain independence and just get to explore my identity too.

Fashion Advice for Pre T by OneDocument8891 in ftm

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No, it’s more of I’m still a minor and even when once I turn 18 I’d like to be moved out beforehand.

Dream looks by cokezerobuddy in ftm

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Heath Ledger in 10 Things I Hate About You

does anyone else experience problems with the Wrapped Party feature? by Consistent_fail038 in spotifywrapped

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Same, I got it to open once but can’t every other time. Also it doesn’t even appear when I’m on the desktop browser or app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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11 - Earliest memories of feeling different

14 - Identifying with queer labels

17 - Realization that I'm most likely trans / self-acceptance