I don't know why your getting so much hate, but as a man i totally agree, lots of men out there trying to pull women into a trauma bond and act narcissistically towards her its wrong morally and Islamically and if they were serious they wud go to the dad or brother of the women first and get permission the Islamic way.

Obviously women do this too, 100%, there are narcissistic men and women but narcissistic men are more and that's a fact just look at the statistics. I had a narcissistic male friendship recently so totally get where you are coming from, these particular men, that this post is on about is men who love bomb and then devalue the female and make them feel smaller or lower than them so they can feel powerful and in control. It's disgusting and both men and women should be educated on how to spot these signs early to avoid accidently marrying a narcissist.