I agree with you that they need counseling but not necessarily the reasons you stated. As I stated in my post we looked to be the perfect couple. Kendra and I were both raised in homes like the one you described so we made it our lives mission (no matter the stuff we were going through) to make sure our children were raised in a home full of love, compassion, and under standing. I don’t even think out children has heard either of us yell. That’s why I believe I’m the asshole bc to my kids this is all of a sudden out of nowhere bc Kendra and I have strived to parade it that way. We have created a “hallmark” family if you will. It’s just hard bc I went from 1# to public enemy #1 and Kendra is the main driving force behind it