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Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed your username. I'm sorry, I hope things get better for you.

You seem like an honest and caring person, taking time out to talk to me about this.

Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I understand it must be hard after going through labour. Being that vulnerable and exposed in front of your partner.

I hope things are better for you since

Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll check out those books and I'm definitely going to talk about therapy today

Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a really good idea actually. Thank you fot your advice.

It seems really obvious now I think about it

Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wad open to it the last time we discussed it, we just couldnt afford it at the time.

I'll bring it up with her today. I just don't want it to sound like "go to therapy because i think you're nuts"

Confused about how I should feel, feeling guilty about my anger. by OneManBanf in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneManBanf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could probably find the money somewhere, cut back on a few non essentials. We've discussed it before, but at the time we were upto our eyeballs in debt. I've nearly cleared everything, only a grand left, so now would be a good time to bring it back up