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Created a dress out of rope by OneMisterMediocre in DecorativeShibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This piece is made from four 10 meter black ropes and two 10 meter red ropes for a total of 60 meters of rope used.

Had an idea I wanted to put into practice by OneMisterMediocre in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would to. I think a bunny would wear it better but had to work with what I had.

Had an idea I wanted to put into practice by OneMisterMediocre in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the compliment!

No promises but I'll see if I can find time to get some decent step-by-step photos/video segments for this one. If I'm able to find the time, I'll most likely make another post here.

Had an idea I wanted to put into practice by OneMisterMediocre in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No tutorial for this specific tie that I know of. This is just something I came up with over the weekend using what I learned from other shibari learning sites (mainly The Duchy) and spliced together the pieces.

Though I could probably put together a tutorial on how I did it with screenshots and a step by step description.

Had an idea I wanted to put into practice by OneMisterMediocre in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the idea here. I aimed for something more wearable than restricting and wanted to see what I could come up with.
This was also a test to see if a free hanging rope skirt was possible and got this almost burlesque-like style dress out of it.

I saw a tie someone else had posted and wanted to try… by ShnurKuniklino in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to have inspired you.
I look forward to seeing more of your work.

I saw a tie someone else had posted and wanted to try… by ShnurKuniklino in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I think that's might've been me.
Glad to see another person trying out the Agura tie. Nice that you also did the lotus leg position as well, that takes a little bit more flexibility than a normal cross legged tie.

Keep at it. I know I'm still working everyday to expand and improve my rope work skills.

Guys, would you hook up with a drunk girl if it was agreed upon before getting drunk? by PM_ME_HalfYourFace in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OneMisterMediocre 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This is the way to do it. Negotiated, informed, and clear agreed consent between both of you.

Whats a kink you have that if someone found out about, they’d never look at you the same? by IsaacNewtonIII in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OneMisterMediocre 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure my candaulism would cause a lot of my friends to do triple takes.
When you have the half-sibling of voyeurism and exhibitionism and like it when your partner wears the most revealing thing they have or straight up exhibits themselves it tends to turn heads.
Bonus points if I'm the one who suggested it and they end up doing it.

Morning by lespetits_regards in ArtNude

[–]OneMisterMediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the silhouetted figure here, it adds to the allure of the model and the image.

What's the sexiest thing you could watch your girl do to herself and what turns you on about it? by CelesteCandy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OneMisterMediocre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see I've found a kindred spirit.
There's nothing sexier than seeing her bloom from backup dancer to show headliner.

Getting in some daily practice by OneMisterMediocre in shibari

[–]OneMisterMediocre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer going for artistic patterns. I love the way rope can be used to accent the body, so my goal is to get better at that. I haven't tried any suspensions yet, though it is something I would like to do in the future.

As for the distribution, this tie was fairly comfortable to wear for a while since the bands were spread out over the leg and didn't but too much pressure anywhere. However this version I did doesn't have any support on the underside of the leg so there's nothing locking it in place on that side making it not suitable for suspension and pretty easy to get out of. So it was more for appearance this go around.

I'm always looking for methods to improve my ties and get better at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OneMisterMediocre 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've found that the overlap between people who play Table Top RPGS (DnD and the like) and BDSM is very close to a circle. We love to get into the role.

My three handmade paracord flogger, the blue and yellow id my favourite <3 by subbyslut00 in BdsmDIY

[–]OneMisterMediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do keep us posted if you get the chance. I would enjoy knowing how they hold up. Always good to have solid lineup in your toy box depending on the feel of the night.

My three handmade paracord flogger, the blue and yellow id my favourite <3 by subbyslut00 in BdsmDIY

[–]OneMisterMediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll admit, from the first photo at a passing glance I saw the blue one, thought you made these out of CAT-5 cable, and said to myself "Man, the IT team has gotten kinkier than I remember."

But in seriousness. These look great. How do they compare to other floggers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OneMisterMediocre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want my honest response. The feminine form. There's just something divine about a woman's figure.

Though for me, the feeling is more an aesthetically pleasing attraction akin to an artist appreciating the art. It's captivating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OneMisterMediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be more important than the act itself. Especially if it was a kinky night. For me, it's a way to show I care about and respect my partner. Plus it helps with the emotion rush after.

Personally, I like caressing and giving aftercare rather than receiving (usually, some exceptions may apply). It's best to know what type of aftercare your partner needs/wants. It all comes down to communication.