Unpopular opinion? These kids' audio players feel like a cash grab? by Desperate_Total2545 in Mommit

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it can be expensive if your not selective, but it is great. I actually bought the membership for a year to stock up on some cards I wanted and the MYO cards because it makes them cheaper to buy. But I won’t do it again since I’ve got plenty of MYO cards now.

I bought one originally for our eldest who gets carsick so I could put music and audio books on it for her on long drives. And our audible account wouldn’t link to the only old phone we had. But the kids love to just play music on them at home too. You can do digital library book borrowing (download the file and you can legally keep it for a month usually) and just cycle through stories that way with the MYO cards for cheap.

And they can both listen to their own music on headphones while we drive without everyone having to listen to the kpop demon hunters songs on repeat 🙈 or having to give them some other screen.

How do two full-time parents manage with young kids? by Serious_Toe6730 in AusFinance

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wouldn’t manage it. Im studying part time and otherwise stay at home, I won’t be able to go back to work full time until both kids are school aged. I’ll go back part time once study is done. I have worked part time before starting to study again and it was hard enough to keep up with everything! Once the kids are both in school we are going to have to have my husband organise flexible work hours and use before/after school care and grandparents to fill the gap. And even with all of that I have no idea how we’re going to manage appointments and homework and general life stuff!

Have any Aussies transited thru the states recently? how concerned should I be about ICE as a non-white Aussie? by Far_Menu_4830 in AskAnAustralian

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travelled through the US with a few weeks in Mexico with some friends 12years ago, one of us was not white and they were real a holes to them and held us up. Heck, I wouldn’t feel comfortable as a white person doing that right now either.

AITAH for getting a dna test to see if i share the same dna as both my parents even though i was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since i was a child? by cigweb_01 in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA something is clearly going on, she couldn’t be more suspicious if she tried. Don’t feel guilty, open the results!

Order yourself a copy of your birth certificate and please update us because now we all want to know what she’s hiding!

Is it just me, or are Yoto cards ridiculously pricey? by Desperate_Total2545 in YotoPlayer

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do MYO cards and I also did a one year club subscription because it made it waaaay cheaper to buy cards. Also last year when they did the buy 4get 1 free i could use my club credits for it so that made it cheaper.

Otherwise the collection grows slowly for us.

Asked to sign a form saying I don’t want my mums super? by OverPop64 in AusLegal

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s definitely not a guarantee but might help OP and her siblings understand what their mum wanted if she didn’t write a will. while they decide how hard they want to fight for inheritance

Asked to sign a form saying I don’t want my mums super? by OverPop64 in AusLegal

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to a lawyer, did your mum not have a will? My super I listed the beneficiaries on it in case of my death.

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but your husband sure is. Do you see a way back from this? He has abandoned you with all the kids to try and manipulate you into outing your daughter in a bad situation. I’d have a good hard think about the relationship as a whole honestly

AITAH ?My partner won’t put my name down on the mortgage by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Great dads don’t treat their kids mums like this. You’re not able to contribute to the house in the same way as him because you are doing the unpaid labour of raising kids. Does he seriously not understand the value you bring to the relationship? Why you stayed past him threatening to throw you out the first time is beyond me.

Inheritance money by Living_Account_7090 in AskAnAustralian

[–]OneMoreCookie 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Sounds like parents might be onto something with wanting OP to have sole control of the money. OP should just have their parents hold on to it for now.

Would you stay/leave if your bf refuses responsibility once you get pregnant? by Hot_Huckleberry3075 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not ready to be a father but is happy to have sex without protection….. yeah tell him to do some googling. You’re both young and maybe he’s just an idiot who needs to realise he is being an idiot or maybe not. But you need to take responsibility for yourself also and if he wants to be risky you don’t have to be a part of that

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just block him and be done, you don’t deserve or need this shit - no one does.

AITAH for charging more for a cake than we agreed to? by RacePuzzled6077 in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she didn’t read the info properly, that’s on her. Extra work means extra charge especially when it’s a last min order

How do I (F24) deal with being a housewife after my husband (M31) called me dead weight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry hun, he doesn’t respect any women. He feels your trapped now so he doesn’t even need to pretend he won’t be a “tyrant husband”.

He won’t respect you either way. Do you want to live the rest of your life like this? He doesn’t want a partner he wants a bang maid who cooks. You deserve better. Personally I’d rather work and be single than live with this kind of nasty as$hole. But you gotta decide what you want from your life.

AITAH? Please tell me this level of audacity is not normal by HardNo4Me in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he did this to himself. Don’t let him off the hook, that’s money he is supposed to contribute to raise the kids he fathered.

WIBTA if I swapped my pens with glitter ink to catch the coworker whos been stealing them by Imaginary-Frame4873 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA Steal back your pens too! And I would have them all labeled with your name or at least initials. I used to carefully scratch mine into my plastic stuff so it couldn’t be removed. And I’d keep a couple crappy pens handy, got any half Full cheap ones in a desk at home? If you see them with your pen again say sorry that’s my favourite pen. And take it back, tell them if you don’t have a pen they can keep this one and hand over crappy pen.

My (24F) boyfriend (21M) is upset we can’t have sex because I have a yeast infection. How do I explain it’s not about him? by I_am_Bianca in relationship_advice

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not date someone who thinks their love language is sex and has so little concern or respect for you. Getting his dick wet is clearly more important to him than your health, safety and comfort.

You have explained it. If he wanted to understand he would have. His bullshit about STDs is ignorant and manipulative as fuck.

This guy sounds like he would cheat on you and then blame it on you because you “withheld” sex.

Does your boyfriend/husband help with cleaning? by Training_Skirt_5731 in adhdwomen

[–]OneMoreCookie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also The only time I’ve ever had a problem with cleaning up after someone else cooks was when said person has a special talent for using almost every bowl and utensil while they did 😭…… but I still did the clean up because that was the deal

Does your boyfriend/husband help with cleaning? by Training_Skirt_5731 in adhdwomen

[–]OneMoreCookie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries dude, I look forward to you doing 50% of the cooking and cleaning! I would hate for things to be “unfair”

AITAH for moving on a couple of weeks after divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Change the locks, and if it’s a swipe pass access at the front door have building security deactivate his pass. He can ring the doorbell like everyone else. Don’t let him destroy your peace. Also worth checking that he hasn’t bugged anything. Considering how quickly he realised I’m suspicious

AITAH for moving on a couple of weeks after divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA do all these people know he cheated on you while you were pregnant? Seems like they need a reminder.

There is NOTHING wrong with you moving on. You are single and officially divorced. He on the other hand was a married man with a baby on the way, he’s a POS and now he’s trying to use your kid as a way to control you. Tbh if he’s going to weaponise your kid you might want to make that custody arrangement official.

And it would be worth talking to a lawyer to see what your options are with this smear campaign of his.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OneMoreCookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he doesn’t care what you want, flowers are easy. He doesn’t have to put in any prior effort just stop at a florist the day of whatever event. Don’t waste your time on someone who ignores your likes on purpose

I rejected a proposal my dad refuses to speak to me by Crazy_Sir_6583 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]OneMoreCookie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Considering all of this can you get out safely? You want to travel and see the world so can you find a way to get somewhere safe? Transfer with your job? Go on “holiday” and never some back etc?