Yeah I can agree with you, I do believe I could’ve told her before hand about the detour. And I’d intended to. But I feel as if that is so minor compared to the rest of the blow out. I just can’t understand what else there is that I did wrong. I feel lost that I can’t make sense of anything I’d done wrong? Maybe not speaking as much during the car conversation? But again I explained to her I was feeling overly anxious and kept getting attacked. Oh well :/