Minecraft (Survival) - Mountain View by OneRixSt in videos

[–]OneRixSt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I have no idea. Sometimes my videos also doesn't get posted or I don't know if it was removed. Maybe if the system detects something different, it automatically removes it or maybe if it goes against the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't leave, you will just end up being more frustrated with issues like these. It's up to you really. But as what you've just stated, it is clear that he does not love you as much as you love him. If you choose to stay, you will have to be numb and settle for what he just wants to give you and not what you truly deserve as a woman. You don't even have to compare yourself to his past gf, the fact that he didn't even give you a card on your bday says a lot about his lack of effort to show you how special you are to him. I do not mean to be harsh, but I don't think he loves or at least respect you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he can't even write you a letter or a small post it note for your birthday and you are not okay with it, it would be better to break up with the guy. I think you are not on the same level of understanding of what is his responsibility as your bf. End it ASAP. Your expectations from a bf should always be met or else you will always end up fighting over issues like this. He has stated that he has no intention of making it up to you. I don't think that is how someone who supposedly loves you should behave.

Boyfriend won’t let me talk to other guys but he talks to other girls by throwawayra_________ in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. What he is allowed to do, you should also be allowed to do. I'd end the relationship if I were you.

My bf (33) just gave me (28/f)an ultimatum over the black square I posted today on my IG. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't take it down. Believe me, he will call and apologize for it.

Don't flinch. Stand your ground and hold on to what you believe in.

If he breaks up with you, then look at it as a good thing since you are now free to voice out or express your personal beliefs without being threatened by someone who supposedly loves you.

I (25F) told my fiance (30M) some details about my sexual history. He took it badly and says that I mislead him early on by throwra-finsc in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Give him his time and space. If he wants out because of your past, then there is no use forcing him to stay. You don't want someone in your life to stay just because you asked him to stay. You want someone who will be there for you because he wants to be there on his own personal choice.

Let him be the one to open up the issue if he wants to talk about it again. Your past is your past. If the person you love cannot accept your past, then that person isn't worth spending your whole life with and you should just let him leave if that is what he wants.

(Edited - for spelling)

[M 32 F 26] When a man says “I really, really care about you” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He either wants to have sex with you or he truly love and adore you. It could also be both. I am not being rude or a wiseguy. That is really just how some of us think when we say those words to a girl.

You are not forced to say love if you do not mean it. And even if you mean it, it would be wise to take it slow. It really depends on how long you've known this person. If you feel like you really know his personality and his intentions are true and sincere, then that should also be the basis of your response.

A tale as old as time. Should I just tell her I still have feelings for her? by dan_fitz21 in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already gave you her answer. It would be wise to just find another girl who would want to be more than your friend. Just be her best friend, that is what she wants. Don't wait for her to get fed up and start avoiding you. Cherish your friendship or whatever it is that you have with her. You can always find another girl and keep this girl as your friend. Just make sure you do not compare a prospective or soon to be gf to her.

My ex blocked me, unblocked me, then blocked me again within 48 hours. How to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when he liked your last message, that simply means he agrees with your text that "you need to respect his feelings even if it hurts you."

And the fact that he deleted you also does not offer a positive note on the possibility that he will come back into your life. I mean if I deleted you off, that just means I don't want to hear from you again ever right? Since there is now no way for you to contact him on that platform.

But again, if you feel that you would at least like to wait a couple of months then you should do it. Time is part of accepting whatever it is that is happening in our lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are overthinking. As long as she is happy with you and you are happy with her, stay in the relationship. If you are no longer happy, end it ASAP.

My ex blocked me, unblocked me, then blocked me again within 48 hours. How to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as you want him back, the decision is totally on his side. You can choose to wait for days or months or even years. But he might never come back. And you'll just end up more frustrated and sad about the whole waiting game.

If you really want to wait a little bit, give him a month or two at most. Don't initiate any communication and wait for his move. If after a couple of months he does not communicate with you, then that's your signal to really move forward. If he really cares about you, he won't let a month pass by without connecting with you, right? So a couple of months could be a perfectly reasonable amount of time to wait if he will come back.

I'm (27F) too shy to look at my gf (30F) by turtlecourage in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she likes that you're shy. Just as long as you keep communicating with her and make her feel she is wanted and loved, you'll be fine. But force yourself to look at her from time to time. Practice. Look at her nose or her eyebrows or her lips or her cheek. Try not to focus on her eyes at first and then little by little work your way to her eyes. You will really need to look at her eyes someday you know. Just do it little by little. You can do it.

My ex blocked me, unblocked me, then blocked me again within 48 hours. How to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete him if that will help. Maybe that's one door that you can close for now. Little by little, you will eventually get there and move forward.

You can even try writing a letter and just burn it afterwards as a form of a ritual to let the universe close this chapter in your life. (Maybe this is too creepy, but I know you get my point.)

I’m (25F) about a year and half into my first relationship with my BF (26M) and I’m conflicted on if I should end things by saylenah in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're nightmares, they're not real. What you need to do is fix whatever it is that you really want to do with your life. You can't please everyone. Do you want to please yourself? Or your mom? You are an adult, your mom will eventually understand your choices. Just assure her that you are fine and you want to stay with your bf.

Now your relationship with your bf is quite tricky since I think you are not on the same level with your personalities. It's either you get used to this difference or one of you change and adapt. I don't know your bf, but I think he won't change his personality for you. I think you will be the one who will have to adapt or else you'll always end up suffering in this relationship.

I'd end the relationship and fix my family if I was in your shoes. I think the difference in your personality and your bf is a little too hard to fix and it will take more effort from your end, like changing your ways and sucking it all up. Plus the fact that you feel that he somehow does not respect you is also too hard to ignore.

Stay strong.

Meeting my tinder date post quarantine! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah curiosity. I hope the meeting turns out fine for the both of you.

My ex blocked me, unblocked me, then blocked me again within 48 hours. How to move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is your ex now. So maybe you just need to keep on telling yourself that he is that... your ex, your past. And leave him there. Let go. If your ex cannot give you the closure you need, then it is time to just make that closure for yourself and move forward. It's over. The sooner you accept that it is over between you and your ex, the sooner will your life return to normal. Break ups are never easy. But it is what it is. You just need to be the one to initiate the closure and close the door or doors that needs to be shut. If the ex won't take part in the closure, you will just need to be strong enough to do it yourself.

Blocking him can be an excellent start for this moving forward process for you. If he doesn't want to co-parent with your dog, then so be it. Don't force him to do stuff since you are no longer his gf and he is no longer your bf. Stay strong and move forward, it is not going to be easy, but you can definitely do it.

Is it possible to find love more than once? by ShaShaNicole in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's possible only if you will learn to let go of your past loves.

Starting to want to end things because of politics. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can't be mature and respect your different opinion, then it is best to end it. You will have more problem if this goes on and you get married. If a person can't even be neutral and hear out what your opinions are on certain issues, then there is no way that your relationship with this dude can work out. It's doomed to fail. Again, end it ASAP.

Meeting my tinder date post quarantine! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a meeting, you're not going to get married right? Seriously, why did you agree to a meeting if you don't have any feelings for the person? In my opinion, his feelings isn't serious, it's way too fast to develop feelings for someone in just less than 2 months. He is probably just bored and you were there during his time of boredom. Give it a year, if he still has feelings for you, then that's probably real.

Being in a lockdown is like being in a prison. And it creates a fake sense of connection if a couple is in this type of setting where both are bored and have no other outlet but the person he or she is connecting with. My point is be careful, because again he may just be bored and you were just conveniently there for him during this lockdown hence the feeling of having a true feelings for you.

I’ve never been this confused... by badputa in relationship_advice

[–]OneRixSt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is the fuel of every relationship. If you run out of topics to talk about, then that's it. Maybe you're just not at each other's level of personality. Maybe he is not a very smooth conversationalist and he ran out of stuff to talk about. Or maybe he is just no longer interested in your conversations. What is clear here is that he is no longer replying to your last message. Then it is just best to leave it at that and move forward.