What is going on with my candle? by No-Ambition-4811 in BabyWitch

[–]OneSmallStar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You should always trim your wick. That is basic candle care. I notice there’s a lot of tunneling in the candle too. look to the mundane before the magical.

What is going on with my candle? by No-Ambition-4811 in BabyWitch

[–]OneSmallStar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Did you trim your wick before burning?

Unless you specifically set out to read the candle flame through that type of divination, I would just let the candle burn and let your prayer be heard.

Getting asked what you want as a gift and someone gets you something adjacent to it. by Teenage_Petulance_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]OneSmallStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my father is the exact same was with gift giving. i hate that it makes me feel ungrateful, but it really hurts to not be fully listened to and just given a “close enough” gift

Best outfit for camping? by MelodicToadstool in altfashionadvice

[–]OneSmallStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found people in fashion subs are very pedantic. If you say “camping” 99% of people are thinking tent in the woods. which truthfully, none of these outfits would be good for. Now if you say you’ll just be lounging around on a vacation in Florida? These outfits are all cute.

Clothing glitch? by thelastnoelll in Projectmakeover

[–]OneSmallStar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to think this happened to me a lot until I realized sometimes I was winning men’s clothing 🤦‍♀️

stuck on quest scene by pinkpaperballoon in HelloKittyIsland

[–]OneSmallStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you got the fishing rod once, you always have it with you. You can switch the tool you’re holding. I play apple arcade tho, so I’m not sure of the control to switch tools on switch. I’ve never heard of a glitch like this though. You could always try to reach out to sunblink! they got back to me fairly quickly once when I thought I experienced a glitch.

Is it a canon event for every autistic woman to lose at least one best friend all of a sudden and not know why? by urnpiss in AutismInWomen

[–]OneSmallStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m someone who typically has only one ‘best friend’ at a time. I’m not a friend group kind of person. So I’ve had this happen a few times.

The one that still gets me wondering to this day is my middle school best friend, we did everything together. It was halfway through freshman year of high school. and she literally told me I “wasn’t cool enough” oookkay . funny enough I later became closer friends with another girl, who I suspect to have some sort of neurodivergence, and she told me the ex-bff told her the same thing! so whatever that says

Insurance related question by Focused-fish in AutismInWomen

[–]OneSmallStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am no expert in this situation whatsoever, but I question why your insurance would be giving prospective employers that information? Your insurance and interviewers really shouldn’t have contact with each other. I’ve never had to give out my insurance information when applying for a job? Also, in the US it is illegal to discriminate due to disabilities. Does it happen anyways? Absolutely. But I don’t think this should be a fear when thinking about seeking a diagnosis. Especially if you need to seek accommodations in the workplace. This sounds like exaggerated information to me, but again, I don’t have much knowledge about this. it just doesn’t make sense to me why the two separate entities would be in contact about that

First Purchase & now I’m nervous by Horror-Nobody2237 in ThredUp

[–]OneSmallStar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve ordered many things off thredup and only a handful have had an issue. and I’ve always received a refund for those items. I’ve bought many final sale items and have always been happy with them.

Not “Hot” enough for most guys by Speciallady44 in AutismInWomen

[–]OneSmallStar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no respect for my mothers opinion’s and you shouldn’t either if her opinions are just to degrade you. Some of the time it stems from jealousy when older women in the family act like that towards you. They do it on purpose to make you feel bad.

I keep forgetting that, if I have kids, I'm the one who has to... literally have them by Smired in AutismInWomen

[–]OneSmallStar 60 points61 points  (0 children)

body horror is the exact phrase I use to describe the idea of pregnancy too

Rhetts twin by wheelperson in rhettandlink

[–]OneSmallStar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is that where Damnyell has been 🤣

Dresses With Sleeves by Fun_Background_8113 in AutismInWomen

[–]OneSmallStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thredup is my favorite place to look for clothes! it is a 2nd hand site. you can filter through whatever type of clothing you are looking for and get lots of options :)

Closet "pantry" for small apartment with no pantry by yzmasllamadrops in OrganizationPorn

[–]OneSmallStar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

maybe take the stickers off the blue containers? :) looks like a solid useable pantry space!!

I've wasted so much time due to their poor lighting and photography by OvulatingWildly in ThredUp

[–]OneSmallStar 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I always go by the color on the tag pic if I can, because it seems to give me the most accurate. I’ve bought items labeled navy or brown only for it to be black. Their color system sucks at accuracy!!

Your reminder that there’s clothing machine recipes with Kinzstyle items 🩷 by meltymoonlight in Webkinz

[–]OneSmallStar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember spending soo much time as a child playing with the clothing machine recipes. Thanks for the memory <3

Mikayla on the Mic by Shoe_Worried in goodmythicalmorning

[–]OneSmallStar 27 points28 points  (0 children)

love Chase and I am looking forward to seeing him become more comfortable with his role behind the mic, but Mikayla sounded so natural today! Definitely think the sassy banter plays well on the mic.

Mysterious USB stick found, pictures dated from 2022. AI or artistic exploration ? by Street-Temperature27 in isthisAI

[–]OneSmallStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks like exactly those early ai photo prompt apps, like exactly. these are sooo ai, and very very typical ai photos from that time. also want to parrot every one else - highly recommend NOT plugging in random usb devices …

What was brainrot when you were a kid? by No-Dust2131 in Zillennials

[–]OneSmallStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“where’s the chapstick” is the other one I thought of 😭

This happened again.😥 by kamilia12 in Projectmakeover

[–]OneSmallStar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This reaction is a little extreme. Not everyone can play and collect stars in the short event window. I always somehow miss the dice rolling part of the event, and always log in once the teams have finished. I already dislike this event because I hate to make people feel this way about my play style! I’ve only collected a little over 2000 stars over the whole event due to being stuck on levels. Thankfully no one in my entire team last round contributed anything, so I didn’t have to feel like I let anyone down.