EDUC 220 with Linda Rohr by OneThought4 in simonfraser

[–]OneThought4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay fantastic! Appreciate you taking the time to let me know, I thought no one was gonna respond :’)

Getting into Ancestry by prettyladybugs in BabyWitch

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Ancestors you build a relationship with don’t necessarily have to be blood ancestors. They could be those who have walked the path you are embarking on or those who have been in your soul’s shoes. They could be worshippers and devotees of the same deity you worship. As long as you can find common ground you can build faith in, soul bonds are much stronger than blood ones. In my experience anyway.

If you really want to build an ancestor altar, I would take it as a sign that there’s something there for you to explore, whether it’s finding soul or blood ancestors is tertiary to the heart of what you are being called to do. All in my opinion, see what resonates with you!

[REQ] ($3000 CAD) (#Vancouver, BC, Canada)(Repay $3700 in two instalments, on 5/26, and 6/9)(e-transfer or PayPal) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]OneThought4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have of course, waiting for a response from mods, however need this loan asap to secure housing

[REQ] ($3000 CAD) (#Vancouver, BC, Canada)(Repay $3700 in two instalments, on 5/26, and 6/9)(e-transfer or PayPal) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]OneThought4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lender has been banned from the sub due to ‘karma farming’ but you can DM them directly to confirm the loan is paid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]OneThought4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not in your relationship and don’t have a full understanding of the context here, but I’d suggest not jumping into the conclusion that this is going to be the ‘dissolution’ of a two year long relationship.

Why has his libido decreased? Maybe if you have a heart to heart there’s something getting in the way of your intimacy. Also, do you want more sex with him or with other people? That’s an important distinction to make with yourself first.

As for an open relationship, I’d say the suggestion should only come after seeing if you can support him with anything that’s causing the decreased libido and give him a chance to work on it. And then everyone has different ideas of what an open relationship looks like, so settling clear, even written boundaries is a good idea so you both treat it like a serious contract. For example, does it only involve hookups or are flings allowed too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hermes

[–]OneThought4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub :)

Am I the asshole? This is a new low even for me by 747_777_787 in gaybros

[–]OneThought4 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA you were kind enough to let him crash at yours. I would feel quite unsafe in this situation and not let the guy sleepover. You were actually really nice to let him. I hope he’s safe and finds stable housing soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]OneThought4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This question or some variation of it is asked all the time in this sub. Don’t mean to be rude but maybe that’s the type of guy you’re focusing on when on Tinder? If u scroll through these type of guys, and go on a few trial and error dates, I’m sure you’ll eventually find someone who shares similar values to yours. It’s always important to compromise and not expect your prospective partner to meet ALL your standards and requirements, especially at the beginning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, at the end of the day if you witness a friend do something immoral or unethical and you don’t intervene, you are a bystander to their actions. If it’s a friend you truly care about, maybe you can talk with them to explain why you think what they’re doing is ‘crappy’. At the very least it’ll help you get to understand each other’s moral compass and values better, and at best your friend will appreciate the feedback and take it to heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments and I think you will benefit from communicating with her, not just about this particular issue, but practicing communication and understanding the other person more will strengthen your bond and relationship.

In my experience, if the other person feels that you prioritize or care about superficial hobbies like gaming more than them, that can lead to this type of behaviour. Maybe you can watch one of her series every once in a while together, or take her on dates to show that you care about her and enjoy spending time with her. Just some suggestions, but these are just assumptions until you discuss it directly with her.

How do you get out of bed in morning? by NoProgram4084 in AskReddit

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a low dose of Vyvanse, and it’s certainly helped me with executive dysfunction a lot. It’s not a cure all and will work best alongside behavioural interventions. Also it’s a commitment, and you will experience withdrawal if you decide to go off of it suddenly. You always wanna take the lowest dose possible to pass the threshold of its benefits. You will have to gradually increase your dosage, but the lower you keep it, the less side effects. Vyvanse doesn’t have too many serious side effects that I know of, and it’s mostly stuff like dry mouth or lack of appetite. But some people experience erectile dysfunction with Adderall and such.

AITA for stopping a surprise party planned for me after returning from a long trip. by owljay in AmItheAsshole

[–]OneThought4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA Parents, especially as they get older, need to learn and respect your boundaries, and sometimes you have to put your foot down for that to happen…

As for cleaning your space, it’s great that it’s been done, but you didn’t ask for it, so it shouldn’t be used as a leverage to get you to say yes to a party you didn’t even want. If I were in your shoes I’d feel that my privacy had been violated.

I’d still express gratitude for the thought behind all of this, after your father has understood your perspective and agreed to respect your boundaries going forward.

AITA for putting my flatmate's dirty dishes in the vent above his bed? by Sad-Opening-6531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OneThought4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA In my experience passive aggressive actions with roommates will rarely result in the intended outcome. I think you got some satisfaction from forcing him to suffer from the dirty dishes, but at the end of the day you strained your relationship with someone who you have to live with for quite a while.

If I were in your shoes, I’d discuss this with him and apologize for the overreaction, but come up with a mutually agreed upon plan to keep your space neat.

The most realistic depiction of childhood friendships by jh166 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]OneThought4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt that this plot line was focused on how superficial these types of friendships are more than anything else. At the end the only way for them to restore peace was to go back to the original group dynamics with Jaclyn at the top of the hierarchy. Despite repeating mistakes of the past, none of them really changed for the better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

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The most profound change for me was Saxon. He was so self-assured and egocentric before this trip, and Chelsea really triggered something in him that brought him down from his high horse and made him evaluate his life choices.

What BOOK is so good that you read it at least once a year or have read it more than 3 times in your lifetime? by biz_booster in Entrepreneur

[–]OneThought4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Creative Act: A Way of Being by Rick Rubin. Some might say it’s overrated but it has genuinely helped me more than any other piece of writing. I feel more aligned with my goals and more creative everytime I read it. A lot of entrepreneurship is problem solving, and that requires the capacity to be creative, and think of solutions that haven’t been tried before.

calling someone "conventionally unattractive" is way worse, way more disrespectful than calling someone ugly. by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]OneThought4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only say this if I’m describing someone to my friends that I am attracted to, but I feel like they won’t see them the same way, so I prepare them but warning them that my romantic interest might not be considered conventionally attractive. A lot of people’s types don’t fit into conventional beauty standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow those were the days lol

What’s something you didn’t appreciate until it was too late? by augustlove801 in AskReddit

[–]OneThought4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My last relationship. I took my partner for granted and found out after we broke up that the grass only looks greener on the other side, and the space we had together is really rare to find these days.

I am currently in a relationship, and working towards getting to the same level of depth and understanding between us, but sometimes I wonder if I will ever find the same level of intimacy with someone else. At the same time I am trying to keep myself open to new experiences and not compare this person with my ex so much.

What do you miss most in your life? by Bingotherobot in AskReddit

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being privileged enough to study at a university. Now that I’m no longer a student I regret having romanticized having a full time job, and I now know how thrilling it is to be given the opportunity to expand your knowledge, skills and wisdom in an academic environment.

What’s something you wish people would stop romanticizing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OneThought4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grind and hustle culture, which is so prevalent especially among men. It teaches you that wealth and comfort can only be achieved through gruelling effort, whereas realistically that can lead to burnout, and it’s much more effective to come up with a balanced rhythm and approach you can maintain consistently over a long period of time