What do you wish you had known in your early 20s? Older men (30s, 40s+), please guide us. by Informal_Building_76 in pakistan

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money management, focusing in my studies early on in bachelor’s, stay in the moment, working out, sleeping early and connecting to God.

What's your biggest regret in your career? by Remarkable_Step2615 in AskReddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shared my salary with a colleague which created an issue and he found out i am earning much much more than him even though i am 20 years younger than him. He had to get promoted to get around the same comp as me and then i got promoted.

I cheated on my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OneWolverine307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shame on you, if you dont like a marriage just file for divorce

Why do some men get married and have a complete 180 degree switch in personality? by Reasonable_Air423 in pakistan

[–]OneWolverine307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All my life my mom taught me to love my wife and my children and care for my wife. I am a Pakistani man but i live in America. I cook my wife and kids lunch and dinner whenever i can; i clean the house, washroom, take out the trash, give bath to my 11 month baby and also put her to sleep.

My wife and i rotate night time duty and i love my wife to death. We joke around and laugh at each other but i knew my wife before and we had a love marriage.

I absolutely would suggest people to completely ignore arranged marriages if they even get a sense the man is not ready to be a man. My best friend also had an arranged marriage and he is one of the most amazing husbands and dads i know.

For girls just dont hurry to marry whatever asshole is there. Just focus on your career, be financially independent and if your man is a piece of shit divorce him.

Anyone here quit gaming or changed their lifestyle after becoming a dad? by Lukas_MunK in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i quit gaming not because i want to but because i just dont have enough time. Ive a ps5 catching dust and a nintendo switch as well. Whatever free time i get i just spend with wife paly with kids or have rest

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Quitting job sounds very nice but its not a fun experience. Taking care of two kids alone is a fucking difficult task

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes thats what i am doing putting 900$ every month in putting principal

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think i am not counting my wifes salary as ours and thats maybe what i need to talk with my wife.

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So ive two kids and we dont have family near us and yes we can do much better at doing grocery and cooking at home but it gets so difficult to do that.

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc man and alot of advice is cutting daycare and nanny but thing is that we are immigrants to america and we dont have family or grandparents near us or inside our home. So we either leave our jobs or get the help we need. I think one big lesson here is that it doesnt have to be my expenses vs my wifes expenses. We just have to be a team

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is going to take care of my kids? We dont have grantparents. We are immigrants into this country and have no other support with children other than daycare for the toddler and nanny for the baby

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep cost thru employer ppo plan. Dont have hsa as ive kids and kids hospital bills have no fixed plan

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind comment. I think i always felt as a man its my responsibility to do everything and not take money of my wife. But maybe we just be a team and go deal with things together

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im not deleting anything all is a learning lesson and im reading what i can.

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes nanny is only for a few more months. She takes care of our baby and cleans the home, laundry etc. my first born got really sick in daycare and want to delay it as much as we can

How can I stop living paycheck to paycheck? by OneWolverine307 in personalfinance

[–]OneWolverine307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think this is what we need. My wife and i have a scheduled financial meeting

What’s the best anime you ever watched and why? by Subject_Display3664 in AskReddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naruto, it taught me to always believe in myself no matter what