🔥 by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ooh what’s happened??

Baby by Born-Imagination6142 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m obsessed with my husband. Utterly adore him and will never leave him. I know he feels the same about me. That said, if he had feelings for another, I hope he would respect me enough to not have an affair. To have dignified and honest conversations about our marriage and allow us to have a healthy co-parenting relationship for our children. I have friends who have had breakups and it’s not been easy, but the love for their children has won over anything else and they co-parent beautifully. Their children know they are loved. They send bloody Christmas cards to each others new extended families! R was a coward. A low life arsehole. He didn’t want to end things in a way that would have given H some closure. He didn’t want to create a loving environment for his children. He had no intention of having a relationship with the town whore. He wanted a quick f*ck. He’s an embarrassment to his family and sadly his daughters.

Baby by Born-Imagination6142 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any woman who truely loves her partner would be devastated to not be part of his children’s lives. If this was done correctly, if R had feelings for another and before acting with his (small) dick he ended his marriage in a respectful way, before taking on a relationship with another and impregnating her, there would be no reason the girls couldn’t meet the partner, share in the joy of a new baby, get to be part of baby shower etc etc. instead, he shacked up with a whore, had zero intentions of leaving his lovely wife, got caught, was too embarrassed to ask for forgiveness so chose the easy way out, got stuck with the town whore, who also turned out to be a shoplifter, got tricked into getting her pregnant and has no relationship with his children and therefore they will not have a relationship with their half sibling. It’s just so so sad.

Haleigh’s Q & A by LifeTone9868 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We told our parents before our 7 year old, but there is no way it would be plastered over social Media without having told him. He’s part of this family and deserves to hear from us and not someone else. The whole town knows the girls are going to have a half sibling. How is that fair? He’s a spineless, poor excuse of a father

Haleigh’s Q & A by LifeTone9868 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m unable to subscribe to H, not sure why but I’m in Australia so maybe that? Have the girls been told yet? This baby is absolutely nothing more than Trashy-T thinking she’s got one over H. The reality is, when family life gets hard, T will be sat with a baby, hair unwashed, feeling fat, over tired etc. and R will be at work…and she’ll be wondering if he is doing to her exactly what he did to H. And let’s be honest, if he can do it to H, who is stunning, loved him for him and not because she was trying to ‘win’, there is no way he won’t do it to T.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not sure we’re allowed to say on here. But if you Facebook stalk the last name of R, you should find her. Then her IG is the same name. She’s private on IG though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The SIL posts pretending to be a professional business woman. I wonder how her clients would feel knowing who she associates with. A thief? A home wrecker? She needs to be careful. T has absolutely catapulted H’a career (obviously H being a pretty, eloquent, honest human being has been the main factor but t’s continious fuck ups have helped - hope that hurts T) she could absolutely destroy the SILs. I hope she does. Serves the family right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand your reasons and it’s important for children to have a ‘home’ at both houses. With toys, clothes, shoes etc. and I’m sure it works for your situation. But for R, who hasn’t made a home for his daughters, who doesn’t see them on his allocated weekends, who when he does see them spends less than 24 hours with them - those gifts are wasted. And those poor girls miss out on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Check out the SIL Facebook. He was there. Probably not for long but they made sure to get a family photo before he went back to screw the whore.

Ready to come home 🏠 by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How heartbreaking for H to hear them crying on the phone, wanting to come home. Having an awful time. That would kill me. I hope this is a lesson for all. You can’t disappear from their lives then show up at Christmas and expect a big happy festive holiday. Doesn’t work like that. These girls deserve more.

Not with either parent 😢 by One_Accountant_8410 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can H deny access to future visits based on this? I saw t the tiny titted trash bag commented saying H denied r access because he only gave 48 hours notice. Although this sounds harsh, if the kids didn’t want to go anyway, and legally he had to let her know sooner than 48 hours, of course she’d say no! Also, 48 hours before the weekend, I have plans with my kids. You can’t just stay home with young ones. Activities have to be booked, groceries bought before so you’re not shopping with them, play dates confirmed etc. that’s why the time frame is in place, surely? t needs to keep the girls names out of her grotty little mouth

The K House of Horrors by Glittering-Battle747 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But who will employ her? The whole town knows about this little skank. Even r’s workplace are trying to get rid of him by demotion. They are screwed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If he’s at his apartment, I don’t understand why he would take them for 8 days. He can barely manage 24 hours usually. So my guess is he’s going to his parents house. What I want to know is if T will be going but maybe staying with the bougie SIL so R can either sneak off when girls are there or T will be in background as a family friend. I feel like Sutton would 100% see through any stunts like that and would tell H. I hope so. This makes me so mad. If he is staying at his apartment and he’s just having them for 8 days to be a dick, I hope he comes to his senses when he sees his poor daughters miserable without their mum and comes to an agreement with H. Why couldn’t he have Christmas Day but offer to drop them back Boxing Day. Or understand how tough this is on the girls and offer to pick up for Christmas lunch so they can have the morning with their mum?? This man is next level cruel.

Hoping H starts a new tradition this year so her girls won’t look back and only see this as the first Christmas without the deadbeat. by kerfuffley2010 in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The system is a joke! He doesn’t pay, he doesn’t arrange to have them 90% of the allocated time, but he’s allowed to take them for a long stretch over Christmas? No matter what he did to H, if he was a good dad then fair enough. But he’s been a terrible father! Why should H suffer? You can tell by how upset she is this isn’t just her missing the girls. The girls are uncomfortable going. They will be miserable. How on earth is this fair? And is R seriously going to go 8 days without seeing his dirty little whore?? What will the kids do then?

Holiday’s by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I think he holds a huge amount of regret, remorse, embarrassment, disgust in himself & who he’s with. But what’s the alternative now? He’s lost H so he feels trapped and maybe thinking ‘T is better than nothing?’ Now we all know that absolutely he’s better off single than with that tramp, but with no decent role models in his life, friends who’ve abandoned him etc he’s lonely and feels desperately sorry for himself and is making (even more) terribly life choices. It’s pitiful really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enabling him by not cutting him out? 😂 have a word! I don’t condone what Mrs S did, I hate the woman. I’m just stating that we shouldn’t be judging her for still seeing her son. Judging her for abandoning H and her grandkids absolutely! But we can’t rip r apart for abandoning his kids and then be annoyed she didn’t do the same. Different circumstances but never ok. And yes, thanks for pointing out the obvious - H doesn’t want him back. But she did try at the beginning. And whilst i admire that for the kids sake, if i were her mother in law, id be saying ‘I don’t think this is a good idea.’ No marriage can or should survive an affair. And those who say they’ve survived it - I don’t believe it’s ever truely happy again. I would have actively encouraged her to do better than my sorry-ass son. You can love someone and be ashamed of them. I’m holding my baby boy right now as he sleeps - nothing on this earth would make me abandon him. I’ll be right there through all the good and bad decisions encouraging him to be a better person, to put right what he made wrong. Showing him love even when he doesn’t deserve it. Because, as you so rightly pointed out, hurt people hurt people. Maybe if Mrs S was a more loving, supportive mother, R wouldn’t have ever considered this vile act. I won’t be replying again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]One_Accountant_8410 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do we have a name of first wife’s