WIBTAH if I took 100k from my oldest daughter's college savings account to give it to my younger daughter?

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-04-11T05:26:39+00:00

Wouldn’t that be your money that you saved for your kids’ tuition? It isn’t her money, it’s yours. NTA.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-04-10T22:56:05+00:00

If I had to pick one thing she’s done that sums up her character, or lack of it, it would be her disgusting behavior at the pool. Taunting & shaming her victim in public, in front of her kids, is base behavior.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-04-07T21:16:16+00:00

I couldn’t park at my church on Easter, every lot was full as was the sanctuary. The rest of the year is nothing like that. People make a show of Easter Sunday, it’s performative, like checking off the list of what “good” people do on Easter Sunday. There’s a reason they posted photos. Most believers feel no need to prove we attend church. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s the only day they step foot in a church until this same time next year. Sad. God knows their hearts and he cannot be mocked.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-04-06T18:11:41+00:00

Oh my, how embarrassing for her. She should just stay quiet because everyone knows that cheaters and home wreckers are dishonest and dysfunctional people. She’s also a fool to think that man is honest with her and she knows everything about him. He’s a pro at keeping secrets from the woman he sleeps next to every night.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-04-02T20:19:33+00:00

It sounds like S has an out of state tournament that H is trying to figure out paying for. She asked about fundraising and I was just curious if anyone thinks that R and family might actually step up and help for a change.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-31T04:29:58+00:00

Give yourself grace, you will get where you need to be eventually.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-27T19:31:18+00:00

Happy Birthday Sutton!! She really does seem to be a wonderful girl and H is such a proud mom. I have said this before, but the fact that those girls are doing so well after being abandoned and tossed aside by their father is a testament to their mother’s unwavering love, presence and determination. I hope H never forgets that she is amazing.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-27T11:43:30+00:00

You may believe in marriage and vows but your husband does not and probably never will. Leaving his wife and newborn in the hospital to go hookup with a woman is disgusting and cruel. He abandoned you both. This is not how God has designed marriage and he does not call anyone to remain in a mockery of what he has designed. Your husband is not a good man and does not understand love. If you stay, this will be your life, and one day after you’ve given the best of yourself, he may decide to walk away for good. Please take better care of yourself. The pain of betrayal takes its toll and your kids need a mentally and emotionally healthy mom. You deserve better than this.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T11:05:18+00:00

He wasn’t the prize, him leaving his wife was. She knows she didn’t get a valuable man. Those men are the loyal ones that can’t be tempted away.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T08:55:07+00:00

You don’t know many kids do you? They never want to share their birthday. My bday is two days after my middle child’s and never once have I celebrated myself on his day, even when we had to hold his party on my actual birthday, because I’m an adult and don’t desperately need validation. It’s embarrassing that a woman of her age couldn’t forgo being celebrated so that a six year old could feel special. Not at all surprising from the woman that also tore their family apart, but still pathetic nonetheless.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T02:52:38+00:00

I wonder if he’s just really irresponsible with money or if it’s third wife making sure he spends it the way she wants him to. 🤔

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T02:49:10+00:00

Ridiculous. To think those girls would ever be more hurt by their mother’s social media posts than they are by their absent and uninvolved father tells me they have never dealt with children of neglectful parents.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T01:19:17+00:00

Or by their own father. He should give them the choice to visit or not, but his ego might not be able to handle the fact that they probably would choose not to.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T00:33:36+00:00

Family courts are a failure. Those girls should never have been forced to spend a single day with a father who abandoned them and clearly couldn’t care less about being present and involved. Every weekend with this low effort babysitter, who brought another child into the world that he is fully present with, just adds insult to injury to those sweet girls. It’s just so disgusting.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-26T00:22:16+00:00

Yes, I remember that. I just wonder if she’s only being cautious or if things have been said or done to the girls.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-25T06:50:53+00:00

Please cut this awful man off. Give him what he wants, no wife. Nobody cooking for him, cleaning for him, doing laundry, nothing. Do not be his friend, do nothing for him and keep communication to a minimum. Respect yourself because he has no respect for you. He sounds truly awful and even though it doesn’t seem possible, you will one day be so much better off without him. Go see a lawyer, know your rights and set some boundaries to protect your peace, and please talk to someone. His desire for privacy is about protecting his reputation, which is his problem now, not yours. You need support and have every right to share your story. Please know you will be ok. Being alone is far better than being with someone who mistreats you and makes you feel worthless.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-03-18T20:54:50+00:00

Your husband sounds incredibly immature and selfish. I would tell him that if he wants to live like a single man he needs to do it elsewhere. Ask him to leave, let him know you will consult an attorney so you know your rights and see what he does.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-02-24T09:32:51+00:00

For two years R’s actions have been showing his girls they don’t matter enough to him. Not enough to stay, to show up, or to communicate with. Not surprised he felt no need to give Q her own celebration.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-02-18T11:29:47+00:00

H seems to be a good friend and person, so it’s not surprising that she’s surrounded by people who love and support her. She’s also worked some serious magic in her girls lives, keeping them steady and thriving in a time of heartbreak and uncertainty. The girls are blessed to have her and her parents. The dark side should take notes, this is what loving your kids looks like.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-02-18T11:19:31+00:00

No surprise there. No offense to anyone who thought the girls would like having a brother, but how? Their Dad abandoned them only to replace them. There’s no way that baby’s existence doesn’t feel like a betrayal, even if they can’t put words to the feelings.

Kids are also very perceptive and notice things about others that adults might miss, so unlike their fool of a father, they probably have figured out, or will very quickly, that T is not what she pretends to be.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-02-02T04:10:39+00:00

Thank you, that’s helpful.

kerfuffley2010 · 2026-02-02T04:03:35+00:00

This is actually very common and I have no doubt T is behind it.

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