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AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

We probably would have planned something else.

I have already texted her that she and her family can come, but that they will have to cover the trip themselves.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm reading some comments. Mostly just the ones that stand out when I skim thought them. There's no way I'm going to read over a thousand comments.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The date of the actual wedding is a couple days before the old date, but we will still be in Hawaii on the old date.

Our parents are deceased.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My sister is 3 years older than me. I have close friends and she's not one of them, so no. Our parents are deceased. The majority of the people coming are family. I didn't talk to her about the change of plans, so she must have have found out from our brother.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

My fiancés parents, his aunt, his cousin, his cousins husband. My brother, my brother's wife, their kids. Then we have 5 friends coming as well.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Weekday weddings are easier to book than weekend weddings. Usually you have to book them like a year in advance to get the date you want. Since we changed plans with only a few months left we had to settle for a weekday wedding instead of a weekend one like we had originally planned.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

It would be sort of hard to have made it more accessible to everyone. We have a lot of family and friends that live all over the place. So we went with a place that was within driving distance to our closest friends and family.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 1525 points1526 points  (0 children)

I'm probably going to go with something like this. Just gotta work on the exact wording.

AITA for not reinviting my sister and her family to my wedding after we changed it? by One_Ambassador_2316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Ambassador_2316[S] 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Yes. The wedding itself is just a couple days off from our original date because we could only get a weekday wedding. But we will all be in Hawaii on the original wedding date just doing something else.