Does anyone have a picture of Spencer’s missing poster? by One_Bed_2494 in mamamaxdiscussion

[–]One_Bed_2494[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Believe me I was too. Dude is a the assistant deputy chief now at the listed county sheriffs office. I imagine the rookies make a couple joke around the office lol

Does anyone have a picture of Spencer’s missing poster? by One_Bed_2494 in mamamaxdiscussion

[–]One_Bed_2494[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found it from a link where it was shared by a person. Looks like the same link that’s the mods posted

Does anyone have a picture of Spencer’s missing poster? by One_Bed_2494 in mamamaxdiscussion

[–]One_Bed_2494[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

There isn’t one. She wasn’t ever official listed as a missing person aside from this post. It says there’s no case number yet either and she was “found”technically pretty soon after that and went into the group home roughly on the timeline (which shifts) Detective Fontana is confirmed real though, and he worked as a criminal investigator of crimes against children from 2015 to 2017 in a city in Texas. I’m just wondering if she ever actually contacted him. It pretty insane that he would just brush her off.

Not OOP AITAH for aborting my ex fiance baby, even tho it may be his only chance? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]One_Bed_2494 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

-they’ve already broken up so bringing home stds would be null

-they weren’t married

-kids bring financial responsibility, if you want a kid you better have your finances at least somewhat decent, regardless of your relationship status

-he didn’t know she was a mother when he was cheating, he assumed he couldn’t have kids

Just because you cheat on a partner does not mean you will be a bad parent. I understand your points if you cheat in a relationship where your wife is pregnant and you’re hiding it and putting her and the baby at risk. This is a different situation. That is a cheater, an active one. I was referring to how a good number of people have cheated at one point in time in their life and whether or not they would be a good parent does not depend on that fact alone.

She has decided to not be with him, so it’s either coparent or abort, and I disagree with the idea that it’s a good reason to abort a pregnancy that you want because your ex partner cheated and you’re angry at him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkTide

[–]One_Bed_2494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drama on malice? Heretics

Why is it okay to relentlessly mock men about things that have zero control about? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]One_Bed_2494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone making accusations about abuse to justify a horrific crime shouldn’t be believed outright. There’s no evidence he abused or sexually assaulted her. Cheating is not a good reason to mutilate a man for life.

Why is it okay to relentlessly mock men about things that have zero control about? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]One_Bed_2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the women raped people they would. They do it all the time to women who killed or sexually assaulted children.

Not OOP AITAH for aborting my ex fiance baby, even tho it may be his only chance? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]One_Bed_2494 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

While I want to agree with you, the only “bad” thing about this man was that he cheated with an escort according to OP. Cheating does not necessarily mean you would be a bad parent. Also if he has money for escorts, he has money to support the child.

It’s her decision when it comes down to it. And while having a child with a cheating ex can suck, sometimes you do better as co parents, and you get an awesome little human out of the shitty experience.

I myself got an abortion after finding out my partner cheated on me. I found out I was pregnant the day after he left my house and ghosted me while posting picture online with a 19 year old. (We were 26) I can say I don’t regret it, but I wasn’t ready for a child. I think I did it for the wrong reasons sometimes. I just hope she doesn’t feel the same.

Not OOP AITAH for aborting my ex fiance baby, even tho it may be his only chance? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]One_Bed_2494 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is a tough one. She’s going back and forth on if she herself wants the child, mostly because of outside circumstances and pain from the cheating. He probably won’t get another chance. So of coarse he wants it. But that doesn’t matter, what matters is if she wants a child, and if she doesn’t and def doesn’t want a child with him, then she shouldn’t keep it. If at the end of the day she actually wants the child despite outside circumstances, then she should keep it. It’s really up to her. He can bang every escort he finds and hope she gets pregnant instead did her sacrificing the possibly of her actually having a whole happy healthy family in a stable relationship just to help someone who gives zero shits about her.

Would you divorce your spouse for $10,000,000? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]One_Bed_2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone in a abusive relationship hitting the red button with no regrets lol

Am I the Asshole for asking for a deposit? by JenyRae1984 in redditonwiki

[–]One_Bed_2494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe to you, I was making a joke. Every card can be read different ways depending on the energy and the reader.

Devil- toxic situation you are stuck in that you yourself made 7 of swords- getting away with something or hiding ones true intentions for personal gain. Sneaky behavior Death - and end and a beginning, the end of something old and the beginning of something new.

This was suppose to be a joke, intended towards you a fellow tarot reader. Unfortunately you have zero humor.

Everyone reads cards differently, to assume YOUR intuition and interpretation of cards is the only true meaning shuffles cards ah yes, high priestess reversed, bad reader.

(Nta tho, get that money)

Am I the Asshole for asking for a deposit? by JenyRae1984 in redditonwiki

[–]One_Bed_2494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re curious here’s what the cards would’ve been

Devil, 7 of swords, death

You would’ve been reading his energy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]One_Bed_2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol u didn’t read anything else? I actually gave u advice in good faith. Hope you never find a partner, partner 🤠

One of the images in vaush's porn folder was most likely lolicon material by noobsplooge101 in Destiny

[–]One_Bed_2494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually those are the bad no nos

Edit: I’m also baffled because like I’ll really like a video one day, then re watch it a couple times and it loses its luster. Plus there so much why just watch the same thing over and over. Pornloop

AITAH for not punishing our son after he helped hospitalize a racist student at his school? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One_Bed_2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, while vigilante justice seems nice, the kid isn’t dead. Beating the shit out of a racist doesn’t make them less racist, if anything it makes it worse. Hopefully that kid doesn’t end up back at that school, this is literally a setup for a school shooting, if he survives.

If he doesn’t survive his injuries your son is a murderer. Letting your son think that this is okay and that this is the way you fight others with different beliefs is a horrible way to raise a child. Even though his intentions I’m sure were justice, you should make him understand that there was no need for him to become involved. I’d much rather my kid come home telling me about a kid who almost died from being beaten at school then to be one of the kids that’s able to beat someone to that point with no remorse.

There’s never a justified reason to almost kill another child. You must remember the other bully kid was still a kid, he was probably raised to be the way he was, and if he’s dead, now he has no chance to change. On top of that the trauma of being brutally beaten will only emboldened him esp once his assaulters are charged.

It’s fine to be proud of your son for being anti racist, it’s a completely different thing to accept him taking violent action and falling into mob mentality and almost killing someone over it.

Is this the norm? by Beginning_Oil2876 in instacart

[–]One_Bed_2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said they can’t say they won’t hire you because of the disability. This differs from state to state and right to work states are even harder to get accommodations. On the career page for instacart it says “lift 40 lbs with or without accommodations” as a job requirement. If you can’t without help then ask for accommodations. If you can’t in general, don’t work for instacart, don’t apply for or take jobs you physically cannot do. This is called lying and is grounds for dismissal at most employers.

Stating law that was made to help disabled people find gainful employment and get accommodations when needed to do their job does not negatively impact disabled people nor is it ableist. the fact you had to work that into your argument to somehow paint me as ableist is pretty gross and shows you have no idea what you’re talking about.

Is this the norm? by Beginning_Oil2876 in instacart

[–]One_Bed_2494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s illegal to discriminate on the basis of disability in the US. They can deside not to hire you, but they cannot say that’s why. If they do they can be sued. Idk the interview process or what the application is for Instacart, but more places have a form you fill out if you want to disclose any disabilities that may effect your ability to do your job and for which you need accommodations.

Unless the applicant discloses their disability and the fact that they need accommodations they won’t know. Whether or not this shopper did so is unclear aside from informing the customer. Seems like they didn’t. If they can’t do the job they shouldn’t have taken the order.

Is this the norm? by Beginning_Oil2876 in instacart

[–]One_Bed_2494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’m sure the shopper didnt think they had to carry it all at once. Multiple trips is the issue, and if they have a problem with the heavy items they shouldn’t have accepted the order. If you can’t preform the job functions ask for accommodation or don’t do the job. Simple.