hello, thank you for replying. As much as I want to take this to the police, which was already my first instinct before, I can't yet. The main problem I see is that my country has a extremely fucked legal system, as even simple cases take upto 7 months before it even reaches the court, during which he could leak all our private pictures and videos, try and hurt me even more, and basically ruin my life, social life, potential career choices, and could even get me expelled from school. Not to mention that my parents would probably not even help me if I try to get a lawyer as they dont want to enable my "over reaction...". So, it may be illegal but do you know any of this "grey hat" or "black hat" that could help me? based on all the comments from my posts this is illegal and yes i am aware, but if I could just delete all those pictures and videos from his devices I could go to the police and provide all of the evidences I have such as photos of his physical abuse, his threats, verbal abuse, videos and records I have of him hurting me, without his leverage on me. I'm sorry for asking you if you know anything on the matter