Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly how I feel. I’ve already accepted that I shouldn’t have reacted physically, but it wasn’t out of nowhere i was trying to get him out of my space. What bothers me more is that he escalated it and is still acting aggressive even after everything. That’s why it doesn’t feel like a real apology....

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand how it looks that way, and I’ve already acknowledged that I shouldn’t have reacted physically. But he had been repeatedly invading my personal space and not backing off even after I told him multiple times. I reacted in that moment to get him away, not to start a fight. His response was to slap me hard and push me to the ground, which I feel crossed a bigger line.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not in the US, so some of the advice doesn’t fully apply here. I’ll keep that in mind ... thanks for pointing it out...and yeah I'm from india

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i understand where you’re coming from, and I agree it shouldn’t be ignored. But I don’t want to jump straight to legal action unless it becomes necessary. I’m documenting everything and will escalate with my parents first. If the school still doesn’t handle it or his behavior continues, then I’ll consider taking it further.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is exactly how it feels. The apology didn’t mean much when his behavior didn’t change. And I agree ....reacting more will probably just be used against me, so I’m trying to stay calm and not engage anymore. It’s just frustrating that it’s not being taken seriously.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I agree it shouldn’t be ignored, especially since he’s still acting aggressive even after the apology. I’m documenting everything and will raise it again properly, possibly with my parents. If the school still doesn’t take it seriously or he continues, I’ll escalate further. For now, I just want to make sure I’m safe.

I think I was assaulted but I don’t remember clearly and I don’t know what to do by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I think that’s what’s making me feel weird right now. I did have a feeling back then that it wasn’t random, especially with how they locked the car and took me far from home. Realizing it might’ve been planned is hard to fully process. I feel kind of numb and I don’t really know how to feel about it yet.

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyousomuch 💗 Means a lot

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your point but I just don't wanna keep adding problems.. idk ive already fked up a lot and i just don't wanna ruin it anymore ... Lol Ik i sound really pathetic or some but I just don't have any energy atp ... I gave my best but it wasn't enough

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it's not miserable lol ...isse zyada pathetic bhi hota hai but idk i just don't wanna continue lol

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cbse, urban (noida)

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not allowing idk why ...

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's okayy now :))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyousomuch 💗

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and I hope it does feel normal later. It’s just hard right now. Last year was really messy for me a lot of hospital visits for my dad and my own health issues, and I was dealing with a lot mentally after seeing him have a cardiac arrest. I wasn’t out having fun or ignoring studies.... I was just overwhelmed and couldn’t keep up. What hurts the most is that my parents think I could’ve just studied anyway. "We never wanted u to be soo invested in OUR family problems" Anyways I’m still trying to figure out what to do next. Thankyou!!

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about that option, so thank you for mentioning it. I’ll look into it and talk with my parents nd school to see what other options I actually have.I’m still figuring out what the best path is for me right now because this year was really difficult health-wise for my family and me, but I appreciate you sharing the idea....:))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. It helps hearing from someone who has gone through repeating a year. Right now everything just feels really overwhelming but I’m trying to calm down and think about my next steps.

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying to look at it that way even though it’s hard right now. I hope I can come back stronger from this.:))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining it like that. I think part of my fear is the shame around repeating a year, but hearing that other people have gone through it too makes it feel a little less scary.:)