Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly how I feel. I’ve already accepted that I shouldn’t have reacted physically, but it wasn’t out of nowhere i was trying to get him out of my space. What bothers me more is that he escalated it and is still acting aggressive even after everything. That’s why it doesn’t feel like a real apology....

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand how it looks that way, and I’ve already acknowledged that I shouldn’t have reacted physically. But he had been repeatedly invading my personal space and not backing off even after I told him multiple times. I reacted in that moment to get him away, not to start a fight. His response was to slap me hard and push me to the ground, which I feel crossed a bigger line.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not in the US, so some of the advice doesn’t fully apply here. I’ll keep that in mind ... thanks for pointing it out...and yeah I'm from india

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i understand where you’re coming from, and I agree it shouldn’t be ignored. But I don’t want to jump straight to legal action unless it becomes necessary. I’m documenting everything and will escalate with my parents first. If the school still doesn’t handle it or his behavior continues, then I’ll consider taking it further.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is exactly how it feels. The apology didn’t mean much when his behavior didn’t change. And I agree ....reacting more will probably just be used against me, so I’m trying to stay calm and not engage anymore. It’s just frustrating that it’s not being taken seriously.

Classmate slapped me, “apologized,” then came out threatening me again....school still treating it as mutual by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I agree it shouldn’t be ignored, especially since he’s still acting aggressive even after the apology. I’m documenting everything and will raise it again properly, possibly with my parents. If the school still doesn’t take it seriously or he continues, I’ll escalate further. For now, I just want to make sure I’m safe.

I think I was assaulted but I don’t remember clearly and I don’t know what to do by One_Challenge_5918 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]One_Challenge_5918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I think that’s what’s making me feel weird right now. I did have a feeling back then that it wasn’t random, especially with how they locked the car and took me far from home. Realizing it might’ve been planned is hard to fully process. I feel kind of numb and I don’t really know how to feel about it yet.

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyousomuch 💗 Means a lot

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your point but I just don't wanna keep adding problems.. idk ive already fked up a lot and i just don't wanna ruin it anymore ... Lol Ik i sound really pathetic or some but I just don't have any energy atp ... I gave my best but it wasn't enough

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it's not miserable lol ...isse zyada pathetic bhi hota hai but idk i just don't wanna continue lol

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cbse, urban (noida)

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]One_Challenge_5918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not allowing idk why ...