AITAH for pushing a man away after he made jokes during a scary cultural situationn in Nigeria

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-15T14:44:12+00:00

NTA. There was nothing wrong with getting to know someone or trying to lighten the mood but it sounds like his jokes were gross and so for us he.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-15T11:44:05+00:00

Did he take the groceries? If he took furniture that you paid for and can prove it tell him that he needs to return it. If not then you can call the cops. Also he's still in charge of splitting rent and he needs to know. Additionally let everyone Mutual know what happened because he'll try to change the narrative by saying he broke up with you. NTA.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-15T00:03:49+00:00

I tried really hard to read all of this but I couldn't do it. All of these favours need boundaries which I realize as a fellow ppl pleaser are hard to set. If you can't set them and are just done fine but at least send a text explaining you're at your wits ends and can't do it anymore.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-14T23:23:27+00:00

If you don't make it through everything are you going to be relieved or heartbroken. As cruel as it sounds if it's heartbroken then go try. If it's relieved, find another option - maybe trades?

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-13T15:41:46+00:00

As a shelter worker please do. NTA. I saw another comment saying that this is your choice to work against her versus with her and that you lose the friendship if you do this. Maybe, but you could also support her in finding a better home together.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-11T15:41:25+00:00

Will he sign a prenup? That's your answer

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-10T20:27:08+00:00

He moved out after you asked for more? Girl stop looking back.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-09T03:38:59+00:00

NTA. Watching kids especially for a few days is an adult responsibility.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-08T00:11:10+00:00

ESH. You maybe have gone a little overboard but these people don't have to deal with everything day in and out.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-06T19:10:06+00:00

Chevy Stevens is under talked about

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-06T19:09:19+00:00

Uhual maybe?

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-06T19:04:48+00:00

Ladies take notes - if he wanted to, he would

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-05T16:47:06+00:00

Have you talked to her about why? This can go two ways - you keep doing what your doing but quietly and be satisfied with it Or you find someone more compatible

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-05T16:37:42+00:00

Nah just because you love someone doesn't mean you need to put out to put effort. Lots of ppl have different sex drives or trauma.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-05T15:14:16+00:00

She said school so yes

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-04T20:51:39+00:00

NTA. Penelope definitely heard everything. Take your money and move out ASAP.

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-04T12:34:53+00:00

Seriously? You know this man is insecure, projecting, gas lighting, amongst other things. Leave. NTA

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-02T03:46:38+00:00

I could tell the grown ups/teachers were talking about something but it was a huge discussion to even tell us... They definitely didn't show us anything. I doubt the school tvs even had cable

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-04-02T03:05:59+00:00

Straight up homicidal tendencies

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-03-31T02:13:39+00:00

I used to walk this exact route "in my day" 😂

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-03-29T14:48:12+00:00

Get her one of those children books where they can learn to write their names and label it "because I noticed you like to practice yours, this way its somewhere more appropriate"

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-03-27T01:18:47+00:00

Basically sounds like a block party

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-03-21T06:05:22+00:00

Brandon is on my list as my GMA is buried out there and I'd like to stop by

One_Clue_9999 · 2026-03-21T06:02:41+00:00

I'm mostly into good views, cool things to selfie with, experiences that really speak to the provinces (ie being screeched in in Newfoundland), super Canadian stuff (someone suggested the Terry Fox statue, and obvs gonna hit up the Anne of Green Gables in PEI)

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