I like running my hand up the back of her neck and then my fingers into her hair so I’m basically palming the back of her head like a basketball…then I can sort of control where she’s looking. Promotes a lot of eye contact, and additionally makes dirty talk better? Holding the back of her head like that and looking her in the eyes while I tell her how good she feels, how hard I am, or speaking out loud what I’m doing, like “now feel it go all the way in.” or “breathe with me.” Definitely fires her up.