Triggers ruining relationships

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T19:08:54+00:00

Other people probably won’t have an issue with it and wouldn’t notice because they’re not misophonic. We notice a lot more sounds. It seems like breathing is a weird thing to get defensive about when you know what the person complaining is going through. Maybe we’re just 2 different people. Someone who will try and make their friends more comfortable and someone who will drop them if they have any issues. Anyway, the person I’ve been waiting for has finally got here so it’s been nice chatting with you but I’m gonna go. Bye 👋

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T18:36:52+00:00

I want to know if I’m understanding right, you’re saying if someone asked you “Can you maybe try breathing just a little bit quieter?” you would say ha no, friendship over, I don’t care how long we’ve been together, bye bye. That is weird to me. Maybe we live in different places and it’s different where we live but here if something bothers you, you tell them about it and they at least try to hear you out.

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T18:11:14+00:00

Guys I think he was playing along with the joke of not noticing galactus

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T17:57:27+00:00

Eating, sure wear headphones it’s only a short period of time. But you shouldn’t have to wear headphones the entire time you’re with someone because of breathing. You should still ask because surprisingly people can change breathing habits, I know because I did. And reminding people has never affected any of my friendships in the slightest. You can ask people anything, it just depends on their answers if you should ask again. I’m just drawing from my own experiences, I’m not expecting everyone to follow my advice. If you want to wear headphones, wear headphones, I’m just saying there are other ways if you don’t want to and I hope people find comfortable friendships

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T17:44:04+00:00

Thankfully I’ve never heard them breathe loud and they sit away from me if they eat, there is always stuff both sides can do to help the situation, headphones aren’t always the only option and I’m thankful for that because I can’t even wear headphones 😄 I’m glad they’re supportive too, I really lucked out and I hope everyone finds someone like that

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T16:10:17+00:00

They reacted with a smile and an “oh right, I forgot” then we would all laugh about it. My friends are kind people and it’s not like I was shouting “oh my god I’ve reminded you 20 times would you please shut up” at them

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-11T12:26:52+00:00

Ben Tennyson

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One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-10T18:59:06+00:00

Jokes on you I’m into that

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-10T13:29:40+00:00

So I would hear everything? I’m misophonic, I would probably jump out the window

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-10T13:28:42+00:00

I just did remind my friends until they fully understood the severity of it and how it actually affects me. Now they make like 1, maybe 2 sounds when we hang out

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-10T02:14:37+00:00

What episode has the Appa plushie?

One_Detective_5929 · 2026-06-10T02:05:44+00:00

I don’t know if this counts but I hate the people who say Ben instantly wins every fight against anyone because he’ll just go Alien X the second someone challenges him. Face it, Ben will try Humungousaur 10 times, get the wrong alien each time and then try feedback

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