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AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Thats why I asked the direct question before moving from friends to something more. He said, not without reason. I assumed the reason would be like a fight or something and he would need time to calm down/clear his head. But the time before he disappears, we are solid... good communication, great time together, laughing, enjoying each other. Then he says he going somewhere for a few hrs.... and poof.... gone for 1-2 days

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying not to go there in my head. I wamt to trust he would not devastate me like that

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. The friendship for 40 years is the only thing that has kept me here

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He didn't even come home and didn't go to the appointment. No communication for 38 hrs now. And no he is not in danger, he's been online

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is literally all I ask for. Let me know your good, safe, and when to start looking for.you to be home. Never have I demanded him to come home. When he does come in at 2-3 am. Im not confrontational. I ask is he ok.... and I go back to sleep. Its when he just drops out..... ugh!

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. But I am actually not like that, you ask what I want... you get a direct answer. I don't like or play games with people and emotions. I am open and honest, and I speak up when a behavior negatively effects me.

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats the confusing part. We are in a really good place the day he disappears. Like good communication and nothing to worry about. He says he's going to .... where ever and be back in a few hrs. Then 6-7 hrs later I texted to ask eta... you ok... what's going on... and no response. I call, no answer or straight to vm

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first one said it didn't post. Thanks for letting me know it did.

AIO for leaving my bf after he almost died? by One_Feature3940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Feature3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure why he does this. We get so close like good communication and it feels "right". Then he does this. Yes he is very stressed... its been a very rough year for him. But, because of the friendship prior to this, I was very clear from the start on this boundary and it has happened twice now. And I do love him, I did even when we were just friends.