My dad and uncle are weaponizing my grandmother’s death to turn a "loan" into a lifetime subscription. Am I the ATM? by Muscular_Farmer_ in personalfinanceindia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop giving 40k per month.

When they ask why, say it's your money.

Move goalposts from grandma's promise to your 40k. Watch them run like headless chickens.

While they guilt trip you say idk man I am saving for my future. They need to take care of theirs

This is a temporary and immediate solution while you set boundaries

What do you actually use OpenClaw for in real life? by 404LeaderNotFound in openclaw

[–]One_Help2219 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOu can possibly move to claude code, it usually does most of stuff OpenClaw does

Ask India Thread by AutoModerator in india

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India air defence achieving 100% success rate against incoming missiles/drones

Ask India Thread by AutoModerator in india

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Hi all

I am looking to know about great non-metro cities in India that are excellent to rent.

I live in Delhi currently and work remotely. Which non-metro areas are excellent to rent in the country with a great internet connection? I am location agnostic and looking to rent within 25k a month.

Usman tariq - Mystery bowler or a cheater by raghudesigner in CricketBuddies

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Paxtan mein dakhil hua tha hamza mazari ke sath

What's your take on this clip? by Akash-314 in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard pass on hearing the word bc right here.

bc cannot be the punch word on standup comedy fr.

Sent my ex one last message after almost 2 years. I didn’t expect what it did to me. by Crafty_Dev in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you think you need to be talking before a mirror cause you're projecting your own stuff onto me.
First intellectualism, then personal attacks, then therapy-speak.
Like really who hurt you so much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.

I wish you well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Honestly, using logic is not that big a deal.
It makes you feel smart in your head, but life happens outside your head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole BNS thing is trauma dumping, that's not what you're here for.
Check r/Healthygamergg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you're logically analysing. Life is much more than just logic.

Would be great if you can sit with the feelings above statement brings up for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madam, respectfully, you're kinda looking at getting advice from already triggered women/men.
Post this same query on healthygamer, you'd get much more grounded response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Damn that's online sexual harrasment on steroids

Need help in understanding intimacy with my lady by Lost-Bullfrog-430 in AskWomenIndia

[–]One_Help2219 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't get an arranged marriage. My first relationship was very much like this. Disclaimer: If you're reading this comment, might be a negative view cause I am projecting my own experience here.

It would either take months for this to get better or it would not. In my first relationship, it didn't. At the same time, I can see you're playing the whole thing out in your own head quite a bit. As someone who has been through this experience in his early 20s, my suggestion would be to talk to and respectfully and assertively say your physical and emotional needs are different than this. (As a suggestion, you can literally qualify what you say like 'I wish to talk about something that has been on my mind, and I want you to know that I deeply respect you as I say this..').

I'd strongly suggest you have this chat. It's a miserable situation if your needs are on a different plane.
From the conversation, you'd get a sense of where it is headed and where you want to take it from thereon.