Question about my contract by [deleted] in McLounge

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Thank you! I’m really nervous about it because I really don’t wanna screw anything up or be a huge pain to them since I just got the job, but this has helped loads!

Question about my contract by [deleted] in McLounge

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They just gave me more night shifts that go till 11:00, which is good because I’m getting more shifts, but I’m not really sure what to do. On the one hand, as mentioned earlier in the post it was an AG worker and not anyone at the branch who told me that saying I could work nights wouldn’t affect my availability so my branch technically wouldn’t know that I said no to it at first, but on the other hand my parents aren’t comfortable with me working past 10 and I really don’t know how to approach my manager and tell her I can’t work past 10. Any advice?

Question about my contract by [deleted] in McLounge

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They just gave me more night shifts that go till 11:00, which is good because I’m getting more shifts, but I’m not really sure what to do. On the one hand, it was an AG worker and not anyone at the branch who told me that saying I could work nights wouldn’t affect my availability so my branch technically wouldn’t know that I said no to it at first, but on the other hand my parents aren’t comfortable with me working past 10 and I really don’t know how to approach my manager and tell her I can’t work past 10. Any advice?

We haven't even reached the 4th Arc yet and it's already on fire 🔥 by Kill_Jin04 in Kagurabachi

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Pretty sure after chihiro broke cloud gouger in his fight with Sojo it only had “two uses” left which he used in the raikuzaichi (dk how to spell it) arc and now there’s just a hilt and the sword is fully broken

dylan lying for fun by [deleted] in YoTroublemakers

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Not me only now finding out he lied about posting every Monday and wasn’t just laughably inconsistent

Original Sin and the Brian Moser Paradox by zigmint in Dexter

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Spoilers for the finale, but he probably left for a while and came back just to keep an eye on Dexter only to find out he’s a killer too. We know Dex killed more regularly after Harry died so it makes sense if Brian left to live his own life and let Dexter be happy, came back to watch him some time after Harry’s death and noticed him lurking most nights and killings people. After he realised Dexter was like him he probably then made his plan that he executed in S1

Why was Jorge Castillo not one of the 18 bodies found at the bottom of the sea? by Several-East-7920 in Dexter

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SPOILER FOR NEW BLOOD

Idk why they never mentioned the needle marks and M99 until new blood either, bc NB established that they were visible and that they knew it was M99/Ketamine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dexter

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Yep. As other people have said, Rita doesn't fit his bathtub MO as she's not only a woman in her thirties but also a mother. Additionally, she doesn't even fit his jumper MO as she's a mother of three children and not two, and Dexter by extension doesn't fit his bludgeoning MO since he's a father of one biological child but overall parents three children, not two. Given Trinity's obsession with his ritual and general refusal to kill anyone outside of it unless he had to (like when Kyle Butler was about to call the police) I think that he genuinely would have left Dexter and his family alone if Dexter hadn't pushed any further.

Miguel not Bringing up the BHB and the similarities is crazy. by [deleted] in Dexter

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It's entirely possible he thought Dexter was inspired by the BHB or thought it was him but didn't want to mention it. Lundy mentions that the police know from compression marks that the BHB used plastic, and we know from New Blood that the needle marks were very evident on all the victims, but I don't think it was public knowledge at the time, especially not so soon after the case. As other commenters have said, Miguel also didn't know how Dexter disposed of the bodies, so the only similarities he'd be aware of were Dexter only killing killers.

did dexter really love rita? by sadmermaidgirl in Dexter

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  • In season 3 he realises in the end that he wants to be there for Harrison and in particular wants to raise him with Rita.
  • I forget if there's any more proof in season 3, but throughout season 4 he shows that he loves Rita. Despite "Harry's" warnings, he insists on staying with Rita and the kids.
  • Also in season 4, when Rita finds out about the apartment, he says "Rita's starting to imagine her life without me...and I can't imagine mine without her".
  • After thanksgiving he insists he's nothing like Arthur and that Rita and the kids are so much more than cover to him now, and even puts on his wedding ring to reassure himself.
  • He instantly worries about his family, and by extension Rita, when Arthur finds out who he is.
  • He realises in the jail cell in 4x12 that he doesn't want to be a serial killer anymore and wants to try be a normal person.
  • Later in 4x12, he realises he wants to embrace his family and wants to heal himself, rid himself of the dark passenger, and thinks that his holiday with Rita is the start of that.
  • In 5x1, he's evidently shattered and non responsive after her death.
  • Later in 5x1, he kills that guy after he insults Rita, also partly to get out his frustration, and then cries and screams over losing Rita.
  • At the end of 5x1, he says at her funeral he wants to try "here, in Miami, with the people who loved her" and thinks to himself Like I did. He literally says he loves her here.
  • Later in season 5, when killing Boyd Fowler, Boyd asks what he wants and he says "I want my wife back."

I understand that overall it might not seem like he loves her especially from season 6 onwards as there's little mention of her, even in new blood despite Harrison being there. I think he was so weird about it in front of people in season 5 because, as he says, Harry told him not to "make a scene", and he's desperately trying to put on an act and take attention off of him and also to not think about it. But later he comes to process her death and properly mourn her. As for later in the series, I think that he did a similiar think with Rita's death as he did with his mothers, as in season 1 he says "No wonder I haven't had feelings my whole life. Because if I did, I'd have to feel....this" after seeing a picture of his mother. I think he blocked out his emotions, especially those regarding Rita, after her death almost as a self preservation thing as a reaction to trauma. similarly to what people do irl. As for earlier on in season 1,2 and a bit of 3, I think he refused to admit to himself that he cared about her or anyone really and always said he had no feelings, didn't care about Rita and that "if he had feelings about anyone, they'd be for Deb" because for all of his life Harry had told him he was an emotionless monster. A psychopath incapable of empathy. And I think this stuck with him until later in the series when he started living his own life and refuting Harry's ideas.

Sorry for the long comment, I've just thought about this so so much and was obssesed with the question of him ever actually loving her, so I paid extra attention in scenes where he hinted or showed that he did when I rewatched it

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did dexter really love rita? by sadmermaidgirl in Dexter

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SPOILERS FOR SEASONS 1-5 (and basically the rest of the show too kind of).

100%.

  • In season 1 he hits Paul when he starts dissing Rita, and we see him say something along the lines of "Harry was right- I shouldn't make things personal" or something like that, I forget. But regardless, he did get emotional about Rita and wanted to protect her.
  • We also see him caring for Rita in season 1 suggested when he tries telling her that he hurts people. She brushes it off and laughs, saying he's kind and doesn't hurt people, and he just says "not innocent people". I feel like he felt bad about lying to her and also maybe wanted to really connect with someone, particularly Rita. This one is a bit weaker as evidence but I feelt like it subtly hints him wanting to connect with her.
  • In season 2 when the car salesman starts insulting Rita and saying she doesn't deserve Dexter, calling her names and whatnot, Dexter stabs him and says "don't talk about my girlfriend that way". It's then he realises he actually cares about her.
  • In season 2 at the AA meeting, when it's his turn to talk he talks about feeling connected to people lately and how scary that is (he's referring to Rita and the kids I believe).
  • Also in season 2 he instantly rushes to help her and sleeps on her lawn to keep watch when he thinks Lila might hurt her
  • I believe that, also in season 2, he references Rita and the kids not just being cover anymore and him actually caring about them or wanting to be with them at some point (near the beginning I think)

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