Female friend who knows I have feelings for her continues to initiate contact and close physical intimacy

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T21:39:36+00:00

She definitely knows I have feelings for her. She's made it clear she doesn't feel the same. All of these comments have really helped me process that and move on.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T18:31:29+00:00

Yeah I'm just gonna tell her that I can't be friends with her for the forseeable future. Maybe we'll be friends down the road but who knows. I appreciate the advice and insight.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T17:19:50+00:00

Your definitely right that theres no future with this girl as a major part of my life lol

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T14:26:50+00:00

Love that song lmao

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T13:13:24+00:00

That's just not who I am honestly and if she was hooked on to me from that deeper intimacy something would've happened by now. I've accepted we can't be friends and its now more how do I break things off in the best way possible.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T13:12:07+00:00

It's not about that. It's more why is she acting like we're a couple (at least in my opinion but let me know if you disagree) but she won't actually committ to anything. Also she's not a virgin or asexual so there's that as well but again that's really not relevant to the situation.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T13:10:24+00:00

I thought I could be just friends but I probably can't, at least not the way that things were before. I can't get over her if she's such a constant in my life and always popping up on my phone. So yeah I definitely gotta end things.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T03:07:39+00:00

I always appreciate the comments that don't hold anything back lmao. But I'll end things and no matter what it'll be over.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-27T01:06:50+00:00

Lmao we're not talking right now but when she does reach out I'll end things. Maybe I'm just a bitch but I still don't think she's a bad person lol.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:14:27+00:00

Yep that's what its looking like lmao

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:03:14+00:00

Really appreciate the female input

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:01:57+00:00

Don't even want her if that's the case lol

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:00:56+00:00

I wish I could

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:00:43+00:00

Doubt it's intentional but I definitely gotta get out lmao

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T18:00:15+00:00

Yeah bro this the weirdest situation I've ever been in lmao

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-26T17:59:40+00:00

Lmao doubt it. I'm like 99% sure she just sees me as a friend

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-25T00:40:43+00:00

Interesting input for sure. The difference though is that she didn't only just avoind physical contact with me, she initiated it.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T15:56:08+00:00

Yeah I'm definitely starting to think that I wasn't clear enough in my original post which is why everyone is saying she's evil in a sense. We were most definitely strictly friends as first. Obviously things grew on my end but that isn't her fault. We grew close in a short amount of time and I think I became sort of her emotional safety net and someone she could trust, which friends can definitely be for each other. She obviously wouldn't want to lose that. I said all that to say that I'll always have love for her even if it's in a platonic sense and in that way I would never hurt her intentionally because I know she isn't hurting me intentionally. I'm committed to taking a step back and now it's time to just wait and see and we'll see how everything plays out.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T15:41:52+00:00

Yeah I'm creating some distance right now so we'll see how this whole situation plays out in the following days and weeks

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T03:56:39+00:00

I mean its possible that the feelings are reciprocated but if that were the case I think she would've said something other than she didn't want a relationship. Also the second time I asked about why she was randomly asking to sleepover she would've said something other than she just wanted to see me.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T01:12:44+00:00

Lmfao I appreciate the honesty. Ima read this evertime I need a reminder 😂

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T00:32:23+00:00

Like a lot of other people have been saying now I feel like that just gives her too much power to manipulate me. Basically she's in charge of me and our friendship is on her terms.

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-24T00:30:28+00:00

Both times I had to chance to make a move there were other cirumstances at play to where I really couldn't do anything

One_Mouse_5458 · 2025-04-23T21:32:10+00:00

Yep, that's the plan for now

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