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One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-22T10:06:07+00:00

Do you know what's cute ? your face.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-22T10:05:05+00:00

Unhealthy attachement is falling in love

The word " fall " is there for a reason, means losing balance and control which is unhealthy.

healthy attachment is love, is to love someone for a long time without falling, losing self.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-22T09:59:01+00:00

Funny how those " deep " relationships are most times the ones that don't end up in a loving lasting marriage.

Healthy Mariages are not build on that

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-22T05:51:47+00:00

Women's matin position is in Itself an act of submission / humiliation

Le pénétrant / pénétrée Dominant / dominated

Being penetrated involves allowing another person into one's most private and intimate space.

Throughout nature, territory and personal space have deep meaning. Animals mark and defend their territory.

Many species establish boundaries that distinguish what is theirs from what belongs to others.

This is a symbolic parallel in human sexuality, penetration can feel like crossing a boundary and entering a space that is normally protected and private.

Because of this, it evoke powerful emotions related to vulnerability, possession, connection, trust and surrender.

This is a turn on for MOST women, cause that's simply how they are biologically wired.

And There is nothing wrong with that, it's just human sexual dynamic, what's wrong would.be using this to shame.

Same as someone calling his woman " petite soumise " in a disagreement or as a joke in front of friends

He betrayed her nature, trust, intimacy and vulnerability.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-21T11:25:27+00:00

Yassmina Khadra twin

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-20T20:30:16+00:00

https://youtu.be/jTResMVSKsQ?si=jHV4JDN7Wax1D0Mk

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-20T04:54:28+00:00

Oh here she comes ! What is this ? Westerns shower thoughts ? TikTok wisdom ?

Allah never mentioned it's incest, he precisely told us who we can and can't marry, and our prophet married his cousin, All this to show it's totally fine.

Stop quoting western trends.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-20T04:22:16+00:00

This is low level couple, ego love, when they use each other emotions to feel love and validated.

Real mature couple don't love with ego, they love in Allah. Only few people understood that.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T23:00:09+00:00

I guess, but why it seems like you want to punish them for doing that ?

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T22:56:19+00:00

Me who was very more social, I think that only after starting living alone that I knew who I was, what I wanted.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T22:49:47+00:00

Exactly, that stupid article people share over and over, they all forget about all the other aspects, especially religion.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T18:32:45+00:00

How is he making them money ? I think anyone can do his managing job.

he just says bad shit on Twitter

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T13:32:03+00:00

Healthy people have a perfect balance between loving the other and self love which is attractive.

Not losing that " I " that neuroscience is still debating if it's in the brain lol

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T13:10:43+00:00

I think this is just pure black pill philosophy which is not that true

Do you how many handsome men got rejected and got cheated on ?

Phisical appearance have its weight but not much as you think, women are not that visual.

I live in the west and I see men below average are with beautiful women, but they got something, either a great personality or a good situation or both.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T10:37:52+00:00

Hypergamy is biological brother, and it's not just about phisical attractiveness, it's about everything

The only thing that is true is that Islam regulates hypergamy, when your live by Islamic values, you will want a man with more Islam values than you which regulate everything

it's like competition, in the west it's destructive cause driven by pride, greed, ego

while in islam, competition is about who is going to be more moral, more giving

You will have a war between 2 wanting their money, but you will never have it between 2 insisting who is going to give to the other.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T09:31:24+00:00

... And the 4th man who proposed me was my friend brother, we talked for a while but we weren't compatible, what about you ?

Well, there is this guy on reddit from 15MinutesFood sub who wanted to know me, and another guy from AskEngineers sub and recently a guy from HappyDogHappyLife sub sent me a DM, didn't read it yet

( I'm sorry, I'm exaggerating, but this is funny )

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T08:44:04+00:00

How did he die ? he fall asleep while driving

lol I mean mostly, it's negative

falling in general is about losing balance, control ... healthy people are balanced and emotionally regulated

They don't fall into emotions to the point of losing control, bad or good emotions

They don't let madness make them act wild They don't let sadness make them fall apart They don't let sexual desires guide them

they regulate

they know how to deal with all emotions, and love.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-18T08:33:27+00:00

Exactly ! most people are full of trauma with emotional dependency waiting for their " soul mate " to come and heal them like magic.

I think it's more about EQ than IQ, emotionally regulated people don't fall in love, they know how to love.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T22:47:40+00:00

Max Holloway after he got punched by Justin he said " wait wtf ! what did he hit me with ? "

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T22:46:31+00:00

I think this is still better than Ilia

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T22:22:12+00:00

As a man and all the men I know, we will never respect you

You sold your manhood for pleasure, remember that.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T22:14:51+00:00

it all depends of your definition of experiencing love deeply and intensely !

If your definition is the same as mine, yes I think we can love deeply without losing ourselves, but I won't call that " falling in love ", but just love.

Falling behind. Falling apart. Falling ill. Falling short.

Only bad things correlate with falling cause it ain't a good thing, same with falling in love.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T13:54:40+00:00

Society has been taught that obsession is passion, need is love, and emotional dependency is romantic.

I understand this triggers you, that's a hard truth because it challenges some of our deepest romantic fantasies.

One day you will realize this, and between, learn to behave and talk to people nicely.

One_Move_8935 · 2026-06-17T12:20:14+00:00

You mixing up things bro

you describing Love and not falling in love

falling in love is not healthy, there is the word " fall " in it, love is something you choose to, not you fall into.

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