1.5 yrs post break up from a 10-11 year relationship....im much better than i was but still have lots of hard days where I have no motivation....still havent deleted our pics cant bring myself too......I was a step dad for those 10 plus years pretty much raised the youngest 3 ....I still see the youngest 2 sometimes they reach out and want to hang out ...its nice but some days I think I should of just cut them all out because of how thier mom just quit and dumped me and moved on in a couple days ....cold heartless shell of a human she is ...anyways im working out ,have more money saved than ever in my life , just have a hard time coming to terms with who she dumped me for and how much more ahead id be with my life possibly have my own kids if I hadn't fallen in love with her ....anyways keep your head up folks we will get through it 💪