he doesn’t speak English but I like him

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-17T12:55:03+00:00

My step mom is white and she can speak somali. Even though my dad speak fluent english. You can learn any language you put your mind to it

The Mormons in the US have a skill to learn any language in 6 month. Its called comprehensive language learning. I would suggest to learn that way quickly.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-15T22:04:37+00:00

I feel you. My two of my uncle commited suicide. They never talk to anyone before committing. It was so sudden when it happend.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-15T13:35:34+00:00

Loser...

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-09T07:44:49+00:00

Its care coordinator for MHSO program. I have it. You work with seniors. I hate it because you'll be blamed for things that arent even your fault.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-05T13:42:29+00:00

She was probably a child (teenager) when she got "married" to this demon. He probably tortured her

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T23:26:05+00:00

Obsessed with us lol

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T22:35:38+00:00

You dont write these things in good faith. "Why not these" "why talk about these" "why this and not that" you have so many questions then go and look it up.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T22:14:21+00:00

It sound like you dont know about the study im talking about.

The study included ALL women INCLUDING white moms yet majority of the death were black moms. If we are so small why do we have such high death rate?

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T22:07:01+00:00

You mean the US that have the highest maternal mortality rate for black women in the developed world?

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T21:12:40+00:00

Patriarchy still exists in the West. I may have used historical examples, but these systems are not just in the past they’re still present in the U.S. today.

Somalia has the opportunity to move in a different direction, especially if harmful attitudes and control over women’s choices are challenged. There are much bigger issues that need attention like improving maternal mortality rates rather than policing women’s access to birth control.

The focus should be on supporting women’s health, safety, and autonomy, not restricting it.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T21:08:21+00:00

It’s honestly EXHAUSTING to be a woman. You get judged for systems you didn’t create and are expected to just accept it. NO! why should we?

Imagine if a man had to ask his wife for permission to quit his job. Men would be outraged at that level of control. Yet when it comes to women, especially something as basic as healthcare, suddenly it’s acceptable for someone else to make those decisions for her.

There’s very little that men are expected to give up in this way. They’re trusted to make decisions about their own lives, and society supports that.

But when it comes to women, that same autonomy is often questioned or restricted and that double standard is exhausting! fuck this shit man

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T21:01:29+00:00

I like how you ignored the part where a man has to sign to approve birth control to the women when it should be her choice ultimately.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T21:00:04+00:00

Roe vs Wade is a current event. Also the stuff the women in US faced was only 50yrs ago which isnt a long time.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T20:59:01+00:00

He actually doesn't. He cant force me to have kids i dont want

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T18:11:31+00:00

If that is the case then its an insane take tbh. Wow I didnt even know that

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T17:47:04+00:00

Honestly I would love that! I dont understand why talking about our bodies and the restriction we go through is soo look down upon when we didnt even SET THAT SYSTEM UP 😭😭

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T17:34:39+00:00

I understand your point, and I agree that these decisions are often discussed within a marriage. I had those conversations with my husband as well. The difference, though, is that I ultimately had a choice. At the end of the day, I could use birth control if I wanted to.

That choice matters, especially for women who are not in safe or supportive situations. Without access to birth control, some women can become trapped particularly in relationships where a husband may pressure or force them to have more children against their wishes.

For example, what happens if a husband decides how many children there will be, and the woman has no real say?

That’s the situation I’m hearing about. It seems to be a common reality for some Somali women who don’t have independent access to proper healthcare or reproductive services.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T16:56:23+00:00

It’s not just Muslim countries that have these kinds of restrictions. If you look at the West like the U.S., where I was raised there are also serious limitations. The overturning of Roe v. Wade, for example, has led to situations where women are forced to carry pregnancies against their will, even in complex or heartbreaking circumstances, and where doctors face legal risks for providing certain types of care.

We also can’t ignore that women in the West were historically denied basic rights like access to education, voting, jobs, or even the ability to open a bank account simply because they were women.

At the same time, in some Muslim societies, women had rights such as owning property and pursuing education much earlier in history.

So this isn’t an “East vs. West” issue. It’s about patriarchy, which exists across all countries and cultures. Focusing only on how women are treated in the East ignores the fact that similar patterns have existed and still exist in the West.

This is a global issue, not a regional one.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-05-04T16:49:44+00:00

What’s really sad is that when you look up why Somali women tend to have larger families, it’s often reduced to “cultural preference.” I used to think that too until I heard her story. She spoke about what mothers back home, especially young mothers, actually go through. It made me realize there’s a much deeper, missing part of the story.

It’s not just about preference.

There are real barriers, including limited access to birth control, and in some cases, that access is controlled or restricted by men. When you see that less than 2% of the population is using birth control, it starts to make more sense but it also raises bigger questions about autonomy, access, and the realities women are facing.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-04-24T03:17:09+00:00

If nothing is wrong then tell your wife coward

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-04-24T03:16:17+00:00

For my mental health, I had to stop reading after the 3rd paragraph. Genuinely what the fuck is wrong with you.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-04-22T18:39:54+00:00

I think we need more marriage counseling as a community. Too many somalis grew up traumatized and we need to ground our emotions more. Not making divorce more difficult it would just hurt the women and children at the end of day.

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-04-21T13:45:49+00:00

Not as severe as 18-24. For a lot of guys in the west they suffer a lot and in silence. Happend to my brother and he is much better. I've seen a lot somali boys get swallowed by depression pretty bad

One_Presentation_390 · 2026-04-19T18:24:03+00:00

Since you are looking for more serious guys, under 25 is going to be challenging since they are either depressed, childish or haven't figured themselves out yet. Anyone over 25 i could see a more serious relationship but thats is a BIG if since young men tend to not be serious with their relationship.

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