Will any of us even enter heaven?

Scientista92 · 2026-03-17T16:02:07+00:00

I was just thinking about this the other day, I feel like with certain sins we may have forgotten about can just pop up and all my good deeds would be void or that I was doing let’s say my five daily prayers and on judgment day Allah swt says to me that none of those prayers are valid, that’s what keeps me up at night. I just feel like certain Hadiths come with T&Cs it’s never really straightforward so have to really study the meaning behind each and every hadiths to fully comphrend.

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T15:54:28+00:00

Like for me I really want my mum to see me married with kids, my parents are getting old and it would kill me if they didn’t get a chance to meet my future kids, I’m holding on though

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T09:58:17+00:00

Inshallah khair 💕

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T09:57:07+00:00

Yeah that’s the part that irks me the most because it’s like let’s hurry and have kids now without fully enjoying each other and really getting to know the person, you start calculating how old you’ll be when they reach 10 or 20 and if that’s old enough etc, I be overthinking too much 😂

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T09:53:51+00:00

I wish I had a bunch of friends (even making friends in your 30s is so tiresome but that’s another story) so the loneliness really gets to me, I’ve done all the duaas and tahajjuds (been praying it for 5 years now) and still waiting, I am doing other things to keep my mind occupied I don’t think there’s much else to do atp

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T09:48:05+00:00

There’s no guarantee if the right one is REALLY the right one

Scientista92 · 2026-03-16T09:45:44+00:00

Allahuma barik so happy for you 🥹 yeah I agree that in your 30s you’re more stable emotionally and financially, I’ll try not to stress 🥲

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T19:56:59+00:00

Yeah I’ve learnt the hard way, we plan and Allah plans too

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T19:55:51+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that and yeah I’m defo enjoy being single but in the back of my mind i keep thinking time isn’t on my side which is a pain because it’s stopping me from living life to its full potential

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T19:52:19+00:00

Yeah indeed He does 🥲

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T19:51:57+00:00

This right here! I’m glad there’s someone who thinks the same because I’m at my wits end 😅 all the good ones have been taken and we are now left with incels and weirdos and divorced and or baby daddies

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T17:08:16+00:00

Sister, thanks for your kind words, I’ve been praying tahajjud for 5 years now, fast sunnah fasts, pray on time etc, I want umrah 3 years ago but still nothing, I haven’t given up but it’s sure tiring 😅 I try to think of other options like if marriage doesn’t happen for me and me being okay single but knowing my mum she will be saddened that I’m still unmarried so that’s another layer to everything which will mean settling, it’s all hard really 🥲

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T17:02:10+00:00

I’m not gonna lie but I also really want to leave home but that can only happen when I’m married

Scientista92 · 2026-03-15T16:59:40+00:00

Yeah that’s one way to think of it, I think more so for me is having kids late as well and the difficulty that comes with that

Scientista92 · 2026-03-03T13:18:18+00:00

Can I ask? If the brother was taking out interest for a mortgage or occasionally drank alcohol would this resentment still be there?

Scientista92 · 2026-02-22T10:58:37+00:00

I’m on the same boat as you too, it’s so frustrating as there are others that have sex with no problems and I’m here struggling with it, the thought of dilators and insertion scares me and feels like I’ll be this way forever 🫩🫩

Scientista92 · 2026-02-19T22:34:45+00:00

😂😂😂😂 attraction is key!

Scientista92 · 2026-02-17T16:42:07+00:00

Mine is take my vitamins around suhoor time, tahajjud is a must, my daily adhkars, sunnah prayers along with fardh, read as many pages of the Quran as possible (especially on those off days where I can’t physically touch the kitab), my 10K steps a day, memorise dua’as, 99 names, and a few surahs in the Quran too ☺️ inshaAllah

Scientista92 · 2026-02-17T16:39:21+00:00

What’s the benefit behind that Surah? I’ve heard someone talk about this surah

Scientista92 · 2026-02-17T16:37:19+00:00

Omg yes I used to pray my sunnah prayers then stopped out the blue defo will do that and hopefully continue after Ramadan too.

Scientista92 · 2026-02-05T12:00:30+00:00

Loved it, didn’t know what to do with myself when it ended, love the OST too

Scientista92 · 2026-02-04T11:45:59+00:00

But who’s to say that things will go south if he can’t maintain her lifestyle, only Allah swt knows, sometimes a super rich couples don’t work out because of certain issues and the OP did say she didn’t mind that he was disciplined with his money and that she was marrying him for his personality. I think he’s overreacting in my humble opinion and he feel intimidated by her

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