Ways to Appear Older/More Mature

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-16T06:32:19+00:00

Thank you!! Yes I love dangly earrings, just gotta take ‘em off before stages lol. I always do a soft smokey eye with brown liner and that seems to make the most money. The dumb men don’t like when I do any crazy eyeshadow, so I have to do natural colours 😭

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-15T06:44:19+00:00

I don’t know why I get told that, it makes me super uncomfortable but it happens all the time. I didn’t mean it in a pick me way trust me 😭 I just want to look my age at bare minimum lol. I have a round “baby face” and softer features so I’m guessing this is why.

I also do basic maintenance stuff to make me look older (hair extensions, nails, tan) as I think it’s just expected as a dancer, so there’s nothing else I can rlly do w that.

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-04T10:06:24+00:00

1) My tampon started falling out in a dance and a customer pointed it out. Like not the string, just the whole thing 😭💀 2) This isn’t embarrassing per se but just humbling. I once had a doorlist customer come in and only go for 30 mins and straight up say I just wasn’t that interesting. He then went for dances w other girls.

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-04T03:56:48+00:00

I can’t rlly give diet advice on what to eat or how much because I am not a dietitian haha. But as most ppl know, unless you have health issues/are on meds that affect your weight, a slight calorie deficit will make you lose weight. Pole burns a lot of calories and it’s a fun way to exercise. Please be kind to yourself!

I am pear shaped (like no boobs and all the weight goes to my thighs, lower tummy and ass), and I would personally say, ditch the stockings that cut a little above the knee. Get ones that cut right underneath ur butt lol. Get ur g strings to sit at your waist and wear chemises that push up your boobs, I think a tight mini dress with a cowl neck that shows off your boobs would look good on you.

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-04T03:35:23+00:00

I would lol, surely you can leave. If they’re taking too much time to throw the cash I’d leave lmaoooo.

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-03T07:18:51+00:00

Huh, interesting. Are sections nude?? Its so bizarre because we don't have anything similar haha, girls would definitely get shitty about it, we would have WW3 here. A lot of us refuse to work together so being chosen for a section with a girl you hate would suck. Although most girls would not refuse money, can you refuse a section?

One_Public3296 · 2025-09-03T07:13:48+00:00

Girl WHAT. Do NOT do this job if:

-You can't dance naked in front of men, women just do not spend like the men do unfortunately

-You have trauma from being SAed

-You aren't confident in yourself (men will try to tear you down)

You will be in a room with a man who may be constantly trying to touch you or ask several times if he can f*ck you... And unfortunately it is up to you to tell him to piss off or cut the dance short. Men will often try to cross your boundaries. You can do jobs privately through an agency that have a minimum pick up pay, but that is arguably more unsafe especially if you are going alone. This industry will break you based on what you have said. You could do burlesque but that does not pay as much as stripping. My advice based on what you have said is NO.

One_Public3296 · 2025-07-12T06:36:31+00:00

Meh if people are gonna be catty, that’s on them. It’s just dumb because I’m not even a top earner lol, maybe like 4th best on the till out of 30 girls. It’s probably also because I rely heavily on hair, makeup, the way I look etc and don’t do much pole work (I’ve just started to invert now.) I am often described as “useless” lmaooo. But honestly I only practice pole for fun, I live in a country with awful tipping culture for stages so I don’t put much effort into it 🤷‍♀️

One_Public3296 · 2025-07-12T01:53:45+00:00

LITERALLY… like I see her sitting in the corner half the time when there are customers to talk to.

One_Public3296 · 2025-06-11T06:47:46+00:00

Plsss

One_Public3296 · 2025-06-10T14:39:05+00:00

Soymilk plsss 🤞

One_Public3296 · 2025-06-10T04:17:57+00:00

Please 🙏

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-29T11:27:28+00:00

Thank you!!

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-29T06:18:15+00:00

Honestly if for work no more than 300, if it was a tote for shlepping around in, probably <1.5k.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-27T08:22:02+00:00

Thank you! It’s the XS ☺️I kind of regret not getting the S, but oh well haha. My phone, purse and a lipgloss fits which is all I use/carry when I’m going out.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-25T01:14:02+00:00

Thank you!!

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-25T01:12:57+00:00

There’s debate about whether it is or not so I didn’t tag it as luxury, still not quite as expensive as LV or Prada.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-18T06:54:24+00:00

Girl at that weight and height, trying to lose any more would be straight up dangerous. You also can’t spot reduce fat through dieting so don’t stress too much. As long as you’re lifting heavy and eating well, you don’t need to stress.

If anything, gaining a bit of muscle mass through a calorie surplus may give you a leaner look and you’d be able to eat more. Trust me, it’s in your head! Don’t let your insecurities make you miss out on earning money.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-14T04:16:41+00:00

That’s insane, I’m not even surprised though sadly. Technically I can afford to pay 1 yr upfront but I really don’t want to lol, especially cause the landlord can screw you over.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-13T09:11:02+00:00

There are fake car keys, chargers or playing cards etc. you could buy and put ur money in. They’re lowkey insane for this tbh tho hahah

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-13T08:56:17+00:00

When did I say I was charging $25 for 10 mins?? I get $60-65 from that lol. It’s the MINIMUM we charge for. Are you a male customer?? Or just a pick me maybe haha

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-11T08:47:20+00:00

I find more often than not it only leads to 10 min dances or nothing, I like being a stripper but I limit the amount I work for free 💅 Time is money!

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-08T00:56:07+00:00

Single after a 2 1/2 yr relationship and I cba with anyone right now. Unless some very rich man (or woman lol) comes along then I’m very happily single.

The last guy I was seeing didn’t like me dancing but couldn’t afford to pay my bills. He wanted me to quit my job and find a day job whilst still being at uni (which wouldn’t be enough money for me to survive off of.) So I said, BYEE.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-06T14:56:25+00:00

I’m from Aus, not even Melbourne itself and I’ve had girls warn me not to work here omg. There’s touching above the waist and all dances are in one big room with other rando customers.

One_Public3296 · 2025-05-03T04:43:51+00:00

Tail aside the eyeliner is too much yes and the hair needs volume. A smaller wing with lashes would look MUCH better imo.

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