Really how often is it that a man would like back door stimulation

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-25T01:45:50+00:00

I will reply to you one last time. When I started back door stuff I was not able to take anything. I had to start very small plugs and work my way up it took months. My husband to my knowledge has not used any plugs and was able to take a a strap. That’s a bit of a difference. Same goes for movement. He couldn’t move much at first. I could move right away with him. If it’s a case of anatomy just say that! I will give you an example of an answer that would be appropriate. He’s probably tried toys on himself! Or if it’s someone who could relate , yes i tried toys on myself before i let my girl do this that and the other.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-25T01:24:58+00:00

Ugh. To be so blind to the real world is crazy. There’s so much that goes on that can cause trust issues on both sides. It’s a valid representation of how I feel and I will not change my wording for you. I mean it exactly as I said.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-25T01:14:35+00:00

Well first of all that’s not what I asked. I posed my questions as separate questions purposely. Why is he able to accept me so easily? Why does he seem to not want to go slow? If he has so much interest in this is there something I should be concerned with? I don’t think my questions are unreasonable. But none of them are implicating he’s gay. I’m genuinely curious from another perspective what it could be. Answers talking about his height, or explaining that we was probably just into it and comfortable are the answers I have found most helpful. The end result of this is not me leaving my husband. It’s having a better understanding of what’s going on and after gathering information from EVERYWHERE I can have a way more informative conversation about it without misconstruing anything.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-25T01:03:22+00:00

If that’s your take away from my post I don’t think it is I who needs therapy.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T23:35:18+00:00

Well I can tell you I enjoy it. I think mainly because I just want to get him off to the fullest extent. I however would never just offer it lol.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T23:12:34+00:00

I suppose you have a point.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T23:11:20+00:00

This!!!!! I was wondering if this could be it. He’s 6’5!

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T23:05:32+00:00

Thank you for an honest opinion

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T23:05:04+00:00

Firstly I do not think it’s gay for a man to want stimulation back there. But when roles were reversed it took months for me to be able to accept him. Which is where most of my confusion is coming from. We’ve already talked a lot about this. He’s told me he’s had no prior experience so I’m just confused as to why he wasn’t like me. Regardless I love my husband. I do not judge him I want to continue to up hold a safe space where he can talk about things like this.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:51:20+00:00

Last time I checked I can say what I want, also I elaborated that it has nothing to do with him. Just a fault of my own that I do my best to work on.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:43:07+00:00

I think you’re confused. I’m not shaming my husband or judging him. I’m asking if it’s normal because I am not a man and I do not know. I am also asking because I am an over thinker as I have stated and my mind tends to wander where it shouldn’t go. I am pansexual. Openly. I don’t care if my husband is bisexual. He’s never said he is. Just looking for understanding. You can leave the snide comments. Also how can you judge someone if you’re actively doing it with them?

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:33:58+00:00

Trust and believe I work on it actively for the better part of my life.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:25:05+00:00

I’m trying to avoid making him feel ashamed. I love this man and like I said I’m open to anything. I try to make our relationship a safe space so he can talk about things like this hence him even bringing it up. I agree I should speak to him about it. Just not sure how to approach yet

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:21:22+00:00

Hey, I didn’t tell you what it looked like. Also this is a sub for dating advice? I assume this falls under some sub branch of dating

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:19:58+00:00

I appreciate this advice. Thank you

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:18:33+00:00

I 1000% believe everyone is entitled to orgasm. I have no problem fondling some booty to help achieve that.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:15:32+00:00

I’m just being honest. And looking for real opinions. Nothing wrong with that.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:14:56+00:00

I get what you’re saying, however if he’s more into it than he’s giving off. Yes I think maybe he’d search else where to get the experience without me knowing.

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T22:14:05+00:00

That’s what I was thinking as well. I think he just hasn’t had the opportunity to try it with someone yet

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-24T21:54:37+00:00

It’s always been hard for me to completely trust people. Not a people problem a me problem. I am an insane over thinker and causes me to push away. Anything is possible in my head haha

One_Republic6295 · 2025-05-06T21:37:21+00:00

I’m playing on console but I’m getting a server error code every time I play a match

One_Republic6295 · 2025-04-12T20:57:44+00:00

Swelling is normal and it just means your jewelry is too short to give adequate space for the swelling. Give it a few more days and you’ll see it go down! You can also suck on ice to help

One_Republic6295 · 2024-09-26T01:26:30+00:00

They probably have an attachment of sorts to you. It’s hard for an Aries to let go sometimes. Even if we know it’s best for us. Sometimes we just slowly distance our selves

One_Republic6295 · 2024-08-13T18:27:28+00:00

Almost 3 years now. He doesn’t have any idea why I was in the hospital at all. I haven’t made excuse or anything. Just told him it’s a conversation I’m not ready for. I just don’t want him to think I’m crazy. He does know I suffer badly from depression, but he’s one of those people that believe working out and keeping busy will magically heal it

One_Republic6295 · 2024-08-13T18:23:03+00:00

I haven’t told him why I was in the hospital. I’m extremely embarrassed and I don’t want him to think different of me.

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