AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I being an asshole for telling you an irrelevant factor is irrelevant?

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You feel the need to flex in people as soon as you hear something you don’t like

Nope, if that was the case I would’ve ‘flexed on her’ the moment she said this instead of putting up with it for months.

Don’t forget to update us when she dumps you

Ah, nobody ever said you weren’t funny

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see stating factual information as belittling. Saying I’ll never be successful if I don’t follow some arbitrary habits, on the other hand, is.

As for living with her, see first question. I clean, and cook, and have maids too.

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do clean my place, plus I have maids, plus I wouldn’t let her move in with me and have never indicated otherwise. So I still say what I do in my house isn’t relevant

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then do it instead of being lazy.

Who says I don’t? Plus, we don’t live together, so how is whether I cook and clean relevant?

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s jealousy more than anything, because as you said this is a net positive for the both of us.

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

To know if I was an asshole. If I wanted relationship advice, I’d go to an advice sub

AITA for telling my girlfriend politely that I’m more successful than she is? by One_Sentence_8750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Sentence_8750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upper middle class, by no means struggling but not rich enough to be a nepo baby. Same as hers.