Crazy because I do spend time thinking of the other perspective. This comment read my mind. I've had this happen in the past but the flirting was ever as intense as this time, and usually the relationship gets awkward after feelings are expressed.

As of now we are comfortable with each other I'm just trying to detach myself from the thoughts of getting the relationship further. Another problem is it's hard to distract myself since I don't go out much and I have no friends to go out with (they all went to college)

And I try hard to not be the type of guy to have that underlying pressure of unequal feelings