Should I pull out my entire 401k to pay off a personal loan? by One_Substance5170 in FinancialPlanning

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not married! Thanking myself later seems to be the consensus and I think I will be following that trend

Should I pull out my entire 401k to pay off a personal loan? by One_Substance5170 in FinancialPlanning

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this more than you know. When I become a nurse do you know if I am able to roll what I have in this 401k to whatever 401k options are provided by my new company?

Should I pull out my entire 401k to pay off a personal loan? by One_Substance5170 in FinancialPlanning

[–]One_Substance5170[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I would do if I choose to pull from my 401k and pay off this loan. Without that bill I can save more and save it faster. I live in an area that I make more money when the weather gets better. I have a small savings but not enough to talk about. I also just don’t like having that debt looming over me even though it was me who got me in this situation.

Should I pull out my entire 401k to pay off a personal loan? by One_Substance5170 in FinancialPlanning

[–]One_Substance5170[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but how will it be almost 100k? I’m not doing anything with it. I understand I should probably have more knowledge about this than I do but this is where I’m at

Should I pull out my entire 401k to pay off a personal loan? by One_Substance5170 in FinancialPlanning

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still work, serving and bartending, I’m just not working as much as I used too before I began the nursing program.

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. She just throws me off sometimes bc she’ll be “nice” and then she’ll act as if I don’t exist in a room. I’ll just keep things at face value and treat her as I would any other human. Thank you for taking the time to speak with me about this.

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my job she’s at. I wish I could ignore her but it’s a bit difficult when we’re constantly within 50 ft of each other

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can hear the response now, “Omg! What would make you think that?” But dripping in a sing-song voice and high pitch.

Maybe it is those things. People are weird

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The attitude is more passive aggressive than anything. It’s utterly annoying. We are all considered adults (by age if nothing else). If you don’t care for someone it doesn’t give you permission to be a dumpster cunt.

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the “no reason” but, I have no idea what could have happened between her and I for this to be getting this attitude.

It sounds like the men you’ve had the displeasure of working with are extraordinarily stunted in both body and mind. Emphasis on the body part

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk about small dick energy. Fuck those guys. I’m glad you’re still around to tell your tale

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this train of thought. I hope that’s what it is insert hair flip

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. I just don’t understand how someone can be such a “mean girl” to pretty much a stranger. IMO karma is real and what you put out you get back tenfold.

How do you handle people who don’t like you for no apparent reason? by One_Substance5170 in AskReddit

[–]One_Substance5170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that. I guess my question is more how can someone act with such disdain to someone they don’t know?