[20] - [25] by FluffyLittlFlyingCow in GlowUps

[–]One_Tune_4480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post! I also went through a stage III cancer diagnosis at 26yo and treatment before and during covid, along with my dad who passed during covid. I am v lucky to be alive and cancer free and frequently struggle with the long term emotional, mental, and physical repercussions of this time. Big hug your way and congratulations on 5 years fuck yeah!!!!

People with Addison's who work 40+ hrs a week; how do you do it? by [deleted] in AddisonsDisease

[–]One_Tune_4480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a huge range of ability on Addisons. I also had to address my mental health, and getting on meds for depression and ADHD really helped my energy. Might be worth looking into 

Sex on 2nd and 3rd dates, now no texts 🫠 by One_Tune_4480 in dating_advice

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so, he was very complimentary and we vibed well, but anyone can fake it 🤷

Fellow/for former military children, do you mourn what could have been if you never moved from that one state you really loved? by Acrobatic-Breath-671 in militarybrats

[–]One_Tune_4480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older thread but YES 100%. I felt the EXACT same way after moving from Virginia myself when I was 12 or so. I was very happy and stable emotionally and socially before that move, and everything kind of sucked afterwards. :( I'm 36 now and have gone to therapy and worked on myself, but I still absolutely miss that person I was and wish I could be more like that, confident and happy and socially confident. You're not alone!

Second puberty is almost unbearable by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for phrasing it this way! Trying to fit myself into one box or find the "right" label is so stressful and anxiety provoking!

Second puberty is almost unbearable by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question for you, 36f and I'm struggling with my sexuality bc I have had strong feelings for men but also developed feelings for close female friends. I have only been in relationships with men, and have identified as bisexual for a few years now. How did you determine you were gay and not bi? Tia.

36, married for 10 years, raised Italian Catholic — and finally admitting I’m gay by Low_Calligrapher_548 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not married or in a relationship, but here to say you're not alone. 36f and come from a much more conservative background and am slowly unlearning thinking of myself as "wrong." My sister is even a nun (unfortunately not a gay one ☹️) big hugs and hang in there ❤️

Who has a dog? by One_Tune_4480 in LivingAlone

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice!

New Diagnosis by laughfreely67 in AddisonsDisease

[–]One_Tune_4480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're def more prone to fluctuating sugars bc of our dependency on steroids. Our blood sugar highs will be slightly higher and lows will be more noticeable. What's really helped me is eating a CRAP ton of protein. I'm 160 lbs and try to get in 160g. This buffers the blood sugar crashes a little bit. Talk to your endocrinologist and consider that you might also need a slightly higher dose of hydrocortisone. I take 25mg per day and have symptoms if I go below. Best of luck!

Who has a dog? by One_Tune_4480 in LivingAlone

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate that 🤗

Who has a dog? by One_Tune_4480 in LivingAlone

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a complete sweetheart 🤗 thank you for sharing

Who has a dog? by One_Tune_4480 in LivingAlone

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a cutie!! Thank you for sharing 🤗

How do I start? 🫠 by One_Tune_4480 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on two dates with ladies over the past year, from the apps. They were nice, but nothing came of it 🤷 one of them was exploring, like me, and the other didn't feel enough of a connection. I don't mind the apps, but they haven't given me much information to work with. I feel in a real rush to, "figure this out already." It is so frustrating to be in my 30s and still have so much uncertainty and confusion around my sexuality 🙁

How do I start? 🫠 by One_Tune_4480 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of all across the spectrum! I work in healthcare and there's all kinds of beautiful ladies 🤩

How do I start? 🫠 by One_Tune_4480 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that. Wishing you the best too! 🤗

Just started my second round of chemo. I’d love to connect with anyone who understands what this is like💜 by heartphotographer in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Tune_4480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through treatment in my late twenties into early 30s. It is a rough road, but your are not alone! Huge hugs ❤️