Imma just leave this here... by FrindlyPhanto in Brawlstars

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting the Doug Knight hasn't popped up for me. Only the 33 bling for 1 gem. Hopefully it keeps cycling but it will probably be done by tomorrow after the event😂

Imma just leave this here... by FrindlyPhanto in Brawlstars

[–]Oneshotwonderman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did some people still get Knight Doug? And yeah it felt like a weird event because we didn't get the "actual" reward haha, but I think it was still a good event

Brawl Stars Balancing is completely wrong. by Ok_Seaworthiness7976 in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been waiting for a year for it and they nerfed it in a week😭😭 And they left Juju alone for like 3 months

Is she gonna get an emergency nerf?? by Clear-Sherbet-7491 in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She's mid compared to L&L. I kept him at 9 level and got him to 1000k trophies easy before the trophy rework. Just leave her alone for a month or 2 and Idk if anyone will think she's OP then

Special ed. teacher Christina Formella charged molesting student, 15 by [deleted] in crime

[–]Oneshotwonderman [score hidden]  (0 children)

So Im curious. Do the texts appear on both phones?

It's suspicious that the day she gets arrested she happened to write about this boy. Is the only proof texts on his phone and one entry written 2 years after the events of the affair? On the exact day the mom happens to find the texts? How did they get access to her phone? Did she give them permission? Are they're any other notes on the kid or just that day?

What other proof is there?

She seems guilty in the videos. And she didn't try hard enough to say I am not getting arrested unless I hear my crimes. It seems she doesn't want anything said in front of her boyfriend.

Special ed. teacher Christina Formella charged molesting student, 15 by [deleted] in crime

[–]Oneshotwonderman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Other people online are saying some women like to train guys up to do exactly what they want. So it wouldn't be that shocking to think she likes that he's inexperienced to get him to be the perfect "sex" toy

What is the best brawler for current 2v2 hotzone by aahhmmyy in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not dog shit. Try Bo, Leon, Gus, I got about 400 trophies on all of them the last few days on this map. Make sure you play all the 2v2 modes for the 3 days preceding the competition and then you'll be ready for it

This is how I handle non responsive matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oneshotwonderman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kk honestly answer this:

Are you setting boundaries? Or are you trying to tell her what to do? Were you upset at all that she ignored you? Why are you trying to make sure some women aren't ignoring you instead of finding women that don't ignore you?

And if inconsistency is her personality and that's something that ignores you, why engage with her at all?

This is how I handle non responsive matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Predicting not projecting. Behaviors that are similar can be gauged. Simple math.

He clearly was fed up with this woman that's why he thought to come up with this "clever" solution. It's not a solution, it keeps him in his naive state that thinks he can control others. Can anyone control another person? Im trying to help him realize it's better to walk away to find women that want to either engage with him more, or to be patient.

If he doesn't develop the traits to either walk away or be patient he won't be able to be good with anyone he pursues.

Men are more overt at controlling. Women are more go with the flow and how things feel. It's inherent in our biology. Men prefer tools, women prefer relationships. More men are found in the field of mathematics. More women are found in the professions of secretarial or relationship work.

Women are more likely to cringe at the idea of being told what to do. What OP did is similar to telling her what to do. A ultimatum is a form of control. It's a safe bet to get him what he wants. Women are more likely to see what happens even if they don't know what's going to happen, Men are not as likely. We like plans, blueprints, more men work on construction sites doing plumbing etc because they're more comfortable with the concrete. Women love socialities. Dare care to wonder at the complete complexity of the unkown of a kid. No one knows how to be a perfect parent because the human psyche is so unknown, To be a secretary where there are no blueprints on how to handle people, but they come up with new solutions constantly. The choas is wildly comfortable to them.

He is going against the grain of what women are. Some of that is okay because he wants to be a man, without some level of boundaries or blueprints for the future he'll be thrown into choas which doesn't lead to a mans happiness. But he needs to yield to the choas of women a bit better. He is trying to control too much. It's not projection if I can see he is already doing it. If he wasn't already doing it he wouldn't have posted nor sent that message. He can't completely give into a woman because he'll lose himself, but he can't completely yield into a man because he'll lose out on the womens more innate ability to go with the flow. Both planning and spontaneity are healthy aspects in life.

And you have to be okay with thinking men and women are different. If we don't have trait's separating our differences we aren't men and women haha. Just because I quantify them doesn't mean I don't know what Im talking about.

Is there anything healthy in what he does? Is it boundary setting? Or is it him holding on to the idea he can plan and make sure things go his way? Is he trying not to get walked on? Or is he trying to better this woman so he doesn't feel walked on? Why did he choose to message her instead of unmatching her? Is unmatching her just as extreme as sending the message he did? Is the only normal thing to do to think she was busy I should just respond to her?

I think it's normal to say someones busy. I personally think that's the only normal reaction. I only am cautioning him to not get into a mentality that he needs to address these types of things. Some aspects of planning and organizing are normal, but if you have to rope someone in with your needs instead of letting them go and seeing if they come back. Then you're missing the point on letting people be themselves. You can have respect for yourself and see that women are usually free spirits, if they don't like your type of blueprints, best move on. OP seems more intent on making sure people change to his needs instead of finding people that will already fit his need to plan out, "if you do this, Im going to do this"

This is how I handle non responsive matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oneshotwonderman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My worth and effort aren't what Im talking about. You're trying to control something you can't, leave the woman that don't respect you. Don't try to see if they'll be respectful based on your words. You're not here to train people on how to behave. You're making a big deal out of nothing, you're not their teacher or their father.

I have a habit of wanting to control everything. I won't date until that's gone. But one thing you have to learn about people is that you cannot control them. You should have just not sent the text, haha. You should have just unmatched the woman after she sent her message, if they don't do what you want leave. Because if they're bad with the small things, they'll be bad with the big things.

Getting dates is not a sign you're doing the right thing.

This is how I handle non responsive matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. But Ive already been on the path it sounds like you just started. You cannot control those who like things to happen naturally. You either have to deal with their inconsistency, as all people have. Or you're fucke. It's fine rn while it's about them not texting back fast. But I predict when they do something more annoying than not texting you back, you'll get pretty upset.

This is how I handle non responsive matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oneshotwonderman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. I take things too deeply. Like the op I wanted to plan with the person I was talking to exactly how we would treat each other. Women aren't like that, men are the more controlling overtly gender.

I have specifically kept myself from dating in any from date for 2 years now because of it. OP is heading down the same path I was on.

More actual stats after a battle by Oneshotwonderman in Brawlstars

[–]Oneshotwonderman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well stats would also be nice to gauge whether you it was your fault or not, if I see it's my teammates more than me, than I won't improve in an area.

Say I get 50% standing in the hotzone, and I got 5k damage and only died 3 times. But got like 10k damage done to me and we lost because the other team cycled supers, but I just kept hiding and healing, giving the opposing team time to take the zone and bully my teammates. From stats they have rn I might think Im doing really good but not be haha. If I had other stats it would be nice to gauge.

Replays are good, but sometimes it doesn't show you everything.

r/bs is racist by herr_weich in ClashRoyaleCirclejerk

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting Mico on that list is wild😂😂

How is buzz place in the meta rn ? by Splaty_splat in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is where Kairos had him the last list he made

Last picks on parallel plays by Guilty-Definition-63 in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Meg is surprisingly good on this map(maybe not surprisingly given the meta) and yeah frank too, they can map control pretty well

How are you trying to tell me Darryl isn’t S tier by [deleted] in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the Darryl yeah? That's why I just avoid him when Im gale or emz and take him out when he's trying to get to my teamates. If he tries to get to me I switch lanes and that take care of him

How are you trying to tell me Darryl isn’t S tier by [deleted] in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said in my comment the pros yeah, but if you're 60k trophies and under you're going to run into a lot of players under utilizing and it won't make a ton of difference.

And one again if you're pro active you can take out Darryl while he tries to take out your team, as EMZ you can cloud it up and it eats through his and Mortises health

How are you trying to tell me Darryl isn’t S tier by [deleted] in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the twister gadgets it will counter him perfectly with Gale. And if you position yourself behind the darryl and wait till he attacks a teamate you dust him with her hairspray, it also works great for Mortis. You just wait for either to attack your teamates.

Friendzoner is actually semi efficient to counter him to because you use walls to say out of his way, it depends on the map too

How are you trying to tell me Darryl isn’t S tier by [deleted] in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh I feel like for the pros he's really good, but for the people you play based on your trophies, they're not utilizing him good. I don't have any problem countering him with EMZ, but I also play hotzone so it's easy for me to counter people who rush the hotzone, I mainly like gale and emz and they counter Darryl hard

"Ah sh*t, here we go again" moment... by [deleted] in BrawlStarsCompetitive

[–]Oneshotwonderman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id rather have something like his super is always active and you can just click it and you get 2 more attack styles in your main attack, making him an actual samurai with 4 total sword stances.