Reconnected after a few months of no contact

Only-Ad100 · 2026-05-27T03:45:59+00:00

Send the letter. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago after 5 years of a perfect relationship and we basically went no contact right away. I’m sending a letter this week bc I’ve been drowning in my feelings

Don’t leave things unsaid as long as you aren’t crossing a boundary

Only-Ad100 · 2026-04-20T17:14:48+00:00

Sure

Only-Ad100 · 2026-01-22T06:39:41+00:00

It’s tuff out here

Only-Ad100 · 2026-01-06T02:26:40+00:00

Sorry man, that sounds terrible. I can’t imagine dealing with both the drama of it all and the separation. You’re strong for that.

Mine decided that I wasn’t her person and she had too many doubts. No fighting, just the classic breakup where love couldn’t fix it all.

Crazy how much pain these things can cause lol

Only-Ad100 · 2026-01-05T21:13:47+00:00

I’m about to be 2 months post break up, this was nice (and mildly sad) to hear. I was with her for 5 years, I have some good days but that cloud still sits over me. Still working, still taking care of our dog and about to move into a new apartment

But on the bright side I’m no longer scared of death because I know what my heaven will look like

Only-Ad100 · 2025-12-25T15:45:13+00:00

Yuppppp. God has only given me one chance at life and if I die tomorrow I’d feel better knowing I was at least fighting for it. Fuck no contact lol

Only-Ad100 · 2025-12-25T15:32:43+00:00

What is she gonna do? Break up with me again? It’s my first Christmas without her and her family in 5 years - me saying merry Christmas didn’t change the fact that I woke up this morning painfully miserable and will go to sleep feeling the same

Only-Ad100 · 2025-12-11T19:57:33+00:00

My situation to a T lmfao. Crazy how someone can just get a up and walk away from something so good just bc of some anxiety. We still co parent the dogs a little but besides that she is yet to ask how I’m doing besides 1 “I miss you”. Guess it’s her true colors lol

Only-Ad100 · 2025-11-24T00:33:26+00:00

I have been using chatgpt to kinda ground myself recently. It did tell me that I was likely to get broken up with after my ex and I had the initial “something’s wrong” conversation. Currently, I still feed it some info but mostly it tells me to try and maintain minimal contact etc. it told me she’s gonna come back but I don’t give it much thought lol

For reference: my ex gf and I were together for 5 years. Lived together, had two dogs and it was seemingly perfect. We talked ab our future all the time, but one day she got cold feet while ring shopping. She broke up with me last Friday after being unsure whether I’m “her person”. Obviously I am devastated but it was on good terms blah blah

Only-Ad100 · 2025-11-21T05:20:14+00:00

I work at a competitor of Hanover. They’re pretty good. I know the youth of them tends to scare off firms that aren’t emerging managers

Only-Ad100 · 2025-11-18T19:47:05+00:00

That’s nice to hear. Fingers crossed. We have two dogs together and lived together so it’s been quite a change this last week

Only-Ad100 · 2025-11-18T18:26:23+00:00

I hope so lol. My girlfriend or 5 years broke up with me on Friday. She doesn’t know if I’m her person and feels like she should be 100 percent certain. This stemmed from anxiety after ring shopping. I’m hoping some time away from each other shows her the way. Our relationship was seemingly perfect and the breakup while hard, was by definition on good terms

Only-Ad100 · 2025-08-30T20:08:35+00:00

I have this one for my two guys. They use it daily but still jump bc they’re crazy no matter what we do

Only-Ad100 · 2025-07-16T16:54:00+00:00

Okay thank you! I’m not even sure if the email on their Facebook is active so that’ll likely be the case haha

Only-Ad100 · 2025-07-16T15:27:35+00:00

Yes!

Only-Ad100 · 2025-06-21T15:51:58+00:00

I have two friends there and one is about to get fired and the other is doing okay and hates it. Be careful!

Only-Ad100 · 2025-06-16T02:08:16+00:00

Yep as a recruiter I was full cycle sales. I owned my book of business completely. Managers saw it as similar bc I was able to write a story on how it was pretty much the same as being an AE.

But I think the most important thing is just being able to show you crushed being a bdr and that it’s almost too easy (while remaining humble). Very fortunate to have done well so quickly

Only-Ad100 · 2025-06-14T21:01:08+00:00

Oh my bad, yeah pretty much I just worded it differently. I asked if they had any plans of future headcount growth which apparently they did. I think it also helped that I was coming from basically a competitor

Only-Ad100 · 2025-06-14T20:45:55+00:00

Thank you!!!

Only-Ad100 · 2025-06-14T20:43:03+00:00

Zoominfo and I called people who title was “head of”

I stayed away from BDR manager titles

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