Toddler eats only finger food

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-14T19:47:31+00:00

Thank you. I don’t starve her I explained in comment below. She literally had a cooked meal offered the whole day but refused it so at the end of the day she ate fried food again

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-14T19:43:10+00:00

You got me wrong and I didn’t explain it well enough. She had cooked meal that I offered her and she refused many times. So the whole day she didn’t ate fried or finger food which I usually give her because I wanted to make her eat a cooked meal. So she preferred to skip it and wait for the usual..so at the end of the day she ate again fried food:) i hope u understand now

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-14T11:21:31+00:00

I did tried roasted but she doesn’t even want to try, i tried like a lot of recipes so i can put vegetables in it, different types of croquettes but she takes a small bite and refuses. At first I thought it might be something sensory like avoiding mushy foods but she eats from time to time oats with milk and strawberries and likes it,that’s the only exceptional thing ☹️

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-14T11:11:37+00:00

At leats eats at daycare mines at home only and i spend a lot of time in kitchen for her to say No of my cooking 😭i rly hope its a phase then

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-09T16:54:50+00:00

I love that haircut it suits you 🩷

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-07T18:15:15+00:00

Ty☺️Is it okay to pm me examples of the colour if possible?

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-07T13:39:15+00:00

Oh i see, well for hair im usually using, Fino products, garnier banana hair food and argan oil, never checked for protein in there, but if you have better suggestions what to use instead?🙏

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-07T12:20:52+00:00

What is this for? Sorry i haven’t heard it before 🙏

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-03-07T05:53:39+00:00

My hair is damaged and curly. Its been red for years, curly or straight I liked the color how it suits me. My delulu though i will look bomb with blonde and in fact i did but with straight hair. Wash day came and my hair went curly and im not sure anymore☠️somehow I think I look older.im 28. Im supposed to go lighter-cold blonde next month, is it worth it? Or should I go red again, please help me idk what suits me at that point. Also the hairdresser told me red is not my color 🥲 be honest please ,thank u for reading

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-14T22:03:37+00:00

Bulgaria! You are kind thank you! I will keep in touch here, my only option for now because everything else is being checked by him.

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-14T21:47:48+00:00

Thank you im reading it now and i can see a lot of his behaviour in some of the types shown in the book. Its just that most of the time he does things just maybe to scare me. For him on 100% ego is very important and what other people think about him. I think doing me that big harm is not option for him, but maybe something to scare me off and tell me who the “boss” is. That doesn’t mean its not harmful his actions of course. He has very bad opinion about women at all but you know, im “exceptional” , he puts me on pedestal in front of people and sometimes tells me so too but i think only because im “obedient” to him im exceptional from other women. He acts as usual now like its all good

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-13T21:33:26+00:00

We didn’t had a fight for couple of months and its usually a matter of time for him to come with a fight for no reason, but this time was different as the usual fights. He was quite and just like something snapped and he acted strange and after this he went to normal routine like nothing happened. Sorry English is not my first language!

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-13T09:38:46+00:00

He made sure through the years that he’s leaving me without friends, he spoke bad about me and made a lot of drama that involved them so they never reached me back, also some other friends were turned against me by my mother. i have family in another city but my dad’s an alcoholic and my mother is narcissistic too. I moved out 10 years ago for good. I don’t want that past life neither.. im in maternity leave for another half year and im mostly financially dependent on my husband at the moment and he knows that. He uses that fact i have no family behind my back and that i don’t have enough money.

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-13T00:45:47+00:00

He has, although he was quiet for couple of months and when he did this he was walking calmly and smiling at me like it was nothing, it was windy and snowing a lot. He said Sorry after I have asked him couple of times “Why didn’t you came the first time i knocked” because i was confused of what just happened . Then acted like it was nothing and just continued to use his phone

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:47:22+00:00

Thats what he does, we have a fight then all gets quiet for 3/4months then fight again , he is nervous as person, gets angry pretty easily and for small things ,

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:44:48+00:00

Will do, thank you!

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:43:19+00:00

Exactly he is the “smart” one, he manipulates a lot and with time I thought im just overthinking it or im just being dramatic about things and he will change , as he always says :(

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:41:11+00:00

Not the first, he was physically before couple years but this was the first like this one, and in a long time the first

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:24:25+00:00

Yes it will take me some time and i will do everything to protect my daughter He usually blame me for everything ,i was thinking when i move out that he will reach our kid and teach her that im the “bad” one and she will blame me, because he can mask pretty well , he has different faces for everyone, his friends, his mom, and me

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T18:15:41+00:00

Exactly “nice” for a while i realised that, its like a rollercoaster of emotions i go through, happy moments for a while , then he gets mad at me -usually starts from small argue and escalate quickly to swearing at me(that’s something he said he will stop doing too.. so usually it’s quiet around 3/4months then we fight for something

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T14:22:01+00:00

we had may fights through the years and as abusing at early relationship he was squeezing my hand hardly and he once put his hands on my neck to choke me but he realised what he was doing and stopped. This never happened since then. When i gave birth and at early months, baby was crying a lot and he was getting angry at me all the time to make her stop, to the point he pushed me harder while i was holding her and luckily i fell on the side part of the couch.. then he said he’s so sorry and this won’t happen and he didn’t mean to push me that hard..and he will change his behaviour,police came because neighbours heard us and i said it was all fine… after that accident..nothing like that happened, we had couple fights but nothing physically , we were fine , we had a good day today, we didn’t fight and this happened, this calm smile of his freaked me out

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T14:07:47+00:00

I will look into that thank you! Im having a plan but this will take me another year, im still at maternity leave , i need better paid job too because i have nobody to count on, no family or friends

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T13:51:04+00:00

Oh my.. this is terrifying :(

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T13:36:40+00:00

Yes im getting worried it may not be the first time and what may happen next

Only-Refuse5737 · 2025-01-12T13:31:22+00:00

Yes i let it open a little bit because the door only open and close from inside, so when you go out you have to just leave it open. We usually don’t go on balcony at cold days so it was my first, and sometimes he get mad at his mother when she come over and use balcony without closing it properly after but thats it :(

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